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The Damaged Soul�
Posted : 23 Aug, 2013 12:14 PM

Is a tormented soul...



Some people have been so badly abused and damaged in there life that they have no idea how to interact with others in a courteous and loving way�They most often are sand box bullies�they lash out because it is all they know how to do�Their papa probably was a controlling and abusive person or possibly the mama�maybe they drank a lot or had other issues that could be deemed morally unacceptable�A child growing up in this kind of home most often becomes much like the person that abused them without even realizing it�Some Professionals in Behavior Sciences call it Narcissistic Personality Disorder�the person feels Unloved and Unaccepted by Society as a whole�the person is Insecure and a Loaner�



They don�t want to be Alone�however�they Push People Away�and then attempt to settle any animosity betwixt them selves and others that they disagree with by saying��I�m sorry� in some form�However it doesn�t take much time before they are doing the very thing they apologized for with no remorse�Some behavior Professionals call this Narcissistic behavior with underlying Bi-Polar-Schizophrenia-Dual Personality Dysfunction�Whatever its termed and what ever �Box� those Pro�s put it in or �Label� it�the fact and truth is�The person has serious issues, not only with men and women but also self�Control issues�Dominance issues�and Sin issues�Its no wonder they are always alone and struggling with the battle betwixt the flesh and the spirit�I pray and forgive such as these because that is what Yahweh would have us to do�xo



Mar 11:25 And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.



Luk 11:4 And forgive us our sins; for we also forgive every one that is indebted to us. And lead us not into temptation; but deliver us from evil.



WikiPedia definition - Narcissistic Personality Disorder



Persons diagnosed with a Narcissistic Personality Disorder are characterized by unwarranted feelings of self-importance. They have a sense of entitlement and demonstrate grandiosity in their beliefs and behavior. They have a strong need for admiration, but lack feelings of empathy. These qualities are usually defenses against a deep feeling of inferiority and of being unloved



WikiPedia definition - Symptoms �



Symptoms of this disorder, as defined by the DSM-IV-TR include:

�Expects to be recognized as superior and special, without superior accomplishments

�Expects constant attention, admiration and positive reinforcement from others

�Envies others and believes others envy him/her

�Is preoccupied with thoughts and fantasies of great success, enormous attractiveness, power, intelligence

�Lacks the ability to empathize with the feelings or desires of others

�Is arrogant in attitudes and behavior

�Has expectations of special treatment that are unrealistic

Per the Mayo Clinic, narcissistic personality disorder is characterized by dramatic, emotional behavior, which is in the same category as antisocial and borderline personality disorders.



Narcissistic personality disorder symptoms may include:



�Believing that you're better than others

�Fantasizing about power, success and attractiveness

�Exaggerating your achievements or talents

�Expecting constant praise and admiration

�Believing that you're special and acting accordingly

�Failing to recognize other people's emotions and feelings

�Expecting others to go along with your ideas and plans

�Taking advantage of others

�Expressing disdain for those you feel are inferior

�Being jealous of others

�Believing that others are jealous of you

�Trouble keeping healthy relationships

�Setting unrealistic goals

�Being easily hurt and rejected

�Having a fragile self-esteem

�Appearing as tough-minded or unemotional

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Posted : 15 Sep, 2013 06:23 AM

labeling people is socially acceptable abuse :(

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Posted : 17 Sep, 2013 12:56 PM

Ya...it seems that people in general have to put labels on this and that...while putting it in box...sad to say many people in the world have issues... :( ..and sometimes they need help from professionals in certain areas...I've a couple of friends that suffer from this form of malady...I've been doing reasearch so I may better understand what it is they go through daily...also spend time with teen runaways and homeless of all ages...thanks for commenting...God Bless...XO

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Posted : 28 Sep, 2013 10:23 AM

I think it's safe to say that everyone has some sort of issue, but calling out one issue as if it's the only issue people may have seems a bit pretentious to me.



There are a lot of damaged souls out there, but not all of them are narcissists. Some of them are depressed, druggies, alcoholics, etc. Everyone is a work in progress, what we need to do is to keep ourselves pure and pray for others whom we know need help. Even our enemies.



We've got to be the change we want to see in the world. If we go around labeling people we are no different than the world. If we curse, are unrepentant of our mistakes, judge others, and don't forgive people then how do we make Christ appealing to people? They will only see our faith as a shield we hide behind instead of our armor against the world.

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Posted : 29 Sep, 2013 10:42 AM

There are a lot of damaged souls out there, but not all of them are narcissists. Some of them are depressed, druggies, alcoholics, etc. Everyone is a work in progress, what we need to do is to keep ourselves pure and pray for others whom we know need help. Even our enemies.



*** Absolutely...Amen! and AMEN!!!... X <>< O

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