seaglass28
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Posted : 26 Sep, 2012 09:28 AM
I find this mail (pasted below) from somebody here, greatly disturbing. This is with regards to "plural christian marriage".
I would love to hear you people's take on this.
EMAIL:
thank you for viewing my profile.
I very much like your profile and would
love to get in communication with you I think that we both, our lifes and
characters don�t really fit into such a
small profile so. Let me tell you a little about myself.
I have tried all my life to follow the
Lord has good as I could and to leave
the ways of men behind and have been
searching for true happiness and eternal
progress. The Lord is great and has blessed me so much! I am married to my wonderful wife
Emma and we have two amazing
children, a boy 7 years and a girl 3
years.
We as a family are looking for another
woman to join us in peace, love and harmony as we feel incomplete at the
moment.
We are looking for the special woman
that wants to live with us in christian
plural marriage covenanted before the
Lord, like it is mentioned in the bible for example. Marriage is holy to us! So here you can not only receive a
husband but also a sister and two
children. This is a life that has to be revealed to
you by God himself, it is kind of a
"personal calling".
We feel this holy calling of the Lord to
live how the prophets of old have
lived! We are seaching for the woman God
has promised to send to us. So I want to humbly ask you to inquire
the Lord if this is a life for you.
You are HIS precious daughter so HE
will answer your prayers. If this is something you can imagine for
your life I would be more than happy
to start communication. If this is something you can not imgaine
for you than I wish you the best for
your future and may you find what you
are looking for. I want you to be happy and find joy
and your place in life! I am looking forward to hear from you.
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Posted : 26 Sep, 2012 02:50 PM
That's NOT "plural christian marriage". That's called "polygamy", and that's what I call "messed up"!
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Who, in their right mind, would want 2 or more nuisances to put up with anyway?
:ROFL:
I'M ONLY TEASING LADIES!
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Posted : 26 Sep, 2012 05:01 PM
While plural marriage remains illegal in the USA, there are still some who practice this here, most notably FLDS - Fundamentalist Latter Day Saints. (Not to be confused with LDS or "mainline" Mormons.)
I also understand that there are some non-FLDS who also practice "plural Christian marriage."
Having studied plural marriage, please write to me privately if you have further questions.
And, no, I am not an advocate; merely a researcher.
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seaglass28
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Posted : 26 Sep, 2012 05:57 PM
Thank you guys for the input
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Posted : 27 Sep, 2012 12:06 PM
Back in OT times, plural marriages were sometimes necessary. Infant mortality, women dying in childbirth, etc. The fact that men did not live nearly as long as women and the disproportionate male to female birthrate.
This is not the OT times and Jesus said nothing about harems being ok.
And speaking as a guy who has three sisters...why would any man want to listen to more than one woman yell at him because he left the seat up. :ROFL:
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Posted : 27 Sep, 2012 02:05 PM
Apostelle, it's so funny that you mentioned "leaving the seat up".
Mom taught me 2 rules, no wait, 3 rules concerning this matter:
Rule #1: Sit down!
Rule #2: Hold it down!
Rule #3: Flush!
:ROFL:
Yes, that's right, I've been "house trained", so I know how to use the litter box, or should I say "litter bowl".
Anyway, hopefully this brightens someone's day the way it has mine! :)
I've laughed until my stomach hurts. That's what I call "good, clean humor". The only exception to this would be if you also went #2 and forgot to wipe! Ahhaahaaahaaahaaaahaaaaa!
:ROFL:
If someone sees my name in the obituaries in the near future, you'll know why. Cause of death: Uncontrollable laughter! :)
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Posted : 27 Sep, 2012 02:40 PM
I remember once, when I was about 12 years old, being awakened in the middle of the night by my youngest sister screaming at the top of her lungs. I dont remember if it was me who left it up or my older brother, but my sister had to go to the bathroom about 2am. She went in, without turning on the light, and sat down...and immediately fell into the bowl. She was about 6 years old at the time. My clearest memory of that night was my mother giving my brother and I mean looks and saying over and over, "Its not funny, you two. Its not funny". You have to understand, my youngest sister was spoiled rotten and never did anything wrong...at least, according to her. :rolleyes:
I actually have another brother and two more sisters, but I didnt grow up with them. I did see them when I visited my father.
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Posted : 28 Sep, 2012 08:09 AM
Seaglass28
i would love to hear you people's take on this.
it is a well written letter?
concerning polygamy/polygyny i myself am neither for or against as it is really none of my business how others desire to live their home life.
however,i do have a friend who has two wives and i must admit their children are exemplary....
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Posted : 7 Dec, 2012 09:40 AM
Apostelle, you posted that 'This is not the OT times and
Jesus said nothing about harems being ok.' Maybe he didn't,
but did he at least say that it is -not ok-, and why it isn't?
If Jesus would have given an example in which he clearly uses
a polygamic situation (and let's say polygamy was and is a sin)
then wouldn't that be completely against his own believes to
even mention about it the way he did? Would it make any sense
that He spoke about polygamy neutraly, if polygamy was and is
considered a sin in his own eyes? Ten virgins and the bridegroom:
'Then shall the kingdom of heaven be likened unto ten virgins,
which took their lamps, and went forth to meet the bridegroom.
And five of them were wise, and five were foolish. They that
were foolish took their lamps, and took no oil with them:
But the wise took oil in their vessels with their lamps.
While the bridegroom tarried, they all slumbered and slept.
And at midnight there was a cry made, Behold, the bridegroom
cometh; go ye out to meet him. Then all those virgins arose,
and trimmed their lamps. And the foolish said unto the wise,
Give us of your oil; for our lamps are gone out. But the wise
answered, saying, Not so; lest there be not enough for us and
you: but go ye rather to them that sell, and buy for yourselves.
And while they went to buy, the bridegroom came; and they that
were ready went in with him to the marriage: and the door was
shut. Afterward came also the other virgins, saying, Lord, Lord,
open to us. But he answered and said, Verily I say unto you,
I know you not. Watch therefore, for ye know neither the day
nor the hour wherein the Son of man cometh.' (Matthew 25:1-13)
Peacenic, you wrote about your friends children being examplary.
In my opinion it has completely nothing to do with whether it's
a family with one mother or with four mothers. If every person in
that family has got -Jesus in their hearts-, they will be blessed,
and examplary, no matter if it's monogamy or polygamy. And by the
way, I'm happy to see that someones out there are doing well, even
though I don't know them.
I'm not here to promote polygamy. I just want to live by the truth.
And that is only possible when taking the bible just the way it is,
not adding or taking anything away from the word of God. So if
we can't find at least one thing in the bible about polygamy being
a sin to all, then shouldn't we consider that someone might have
just added it to his words? Don't we only live in a mongamic world
because of tradition (and we also know tradition is not a good thing
in the eys of God)? It's all up to us, to understand, and to decide.
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Posted : 7 Dec, 2012 10:48 AM
As I heard a wise Catholic Priest once say: "There is a major difference between what the bible describes and what the bible prescribes".
Marriage is between one man and one woman, and if we need a good example, Christ is going to be married to his bride. Not brides.
:peace::peace:
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Posted : 7 Dec, 2012 11:55 AM
DontHitThatMark, as a 7th Day Adventist you might have heard about
Doug Batchelor's 'The Antichrist - Antichrist Revealed' and maybe
also '666 - The Mark of the Beast'. If you haven't, and you would
like to see some other points of view, here are the links:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H0jvJzQQMXA
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6DbXVf61uuw
Do not think that it's because of the by Doug presented theories,
that I, gently saying, do not approve of the Catholic Church, but
It's just because they mislead people like any other church does,
and have nothing in common with what God teached us trough Jesus.
That is why I am very carefull with Catholic 'priests'. But as
you have mentioned about him, could you tell me his name?
Once again, brothers and sisters, I am also not saying that Doug
has everything right, but he does make some points. And we, Christians,
know what is right and what is wrong, what is true and what is false,
because we know the word of God, and we are inteligent enough to see
when we should listen to someone, or when we shouldn't. After all,
we listen to God, and not to someone who doesn't even know God.
If you know the word of God, you will recognize evil immediatly.
Now just ask yourself, did I really do everything I could to get
to know the word of God, or did I just listen to people all my life...?
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