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What is the difference in appearance between Christian woman wearing tight clothes and fetish striptease dancer?
Posted : 15 Aug, 2010 06:00 AM

If women wearing tight jeans and other tight clothes would not tempt men to lust after them, then fetish style in sex industry would not exist. Question : What is the difference in appearance between Christian woman wearing tight clothes and fetish striptease dancer ?



IMODEST WOMEN WEARING MODERN CLOTHING STYLE, you probably think that this is not a big deal, but on the day of judgement you're going to have to answer for putting a stumling block for Jesus' little ones. Some men are strong, some weak. But if you would dress modesly you would not PROVOKE weak brother to stumble and commit adultery in his heart with you.

Imagine that someone tries to get rid of addction to pornography and comes to Church to pray about it and sees no difference in

apperance of Christian women than he saw when he wached wicked movies! You make Christianity look like a joke ! REPENT TILL IT'S NOT TO LATE .

If I was a wicked painter who likes to paint naked women, I would not need you to take your clothes out because I can see your body shapes clearly with the modern clothes you wear. I would just need to pick up the colour for a skin tone. You're almost the same as naked.

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Posted : 18 Aug, 2010 11:29 AM

I quoted James 4:4 to show that not always we must preach with smile.



Do you consider woman wearing tight clothes a modest woman? Or wearing shiny metals ? Honestly?



I think that women should wear loose and long dresses or skirts without exposing the figure .

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Posted : 18 Aug, 2010 03:02 PM

you might want to subscibe yourself to the Omish faith then guy, cause that is really the only way you are going to get what you are trying to force on people who have not made it thier decision.

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Posted : 19 Aug, 2010 09:00 AM

@stormie thanks for writing this, you took the words right out of my mouth.

But, after consulting some other guys, I came to realize that there REALLY are gals who come to church dressed in tight latex pants or some Daisy Dukes. I've never seen anything like that in the churches around the place I live lol. Nevertheless I feel sorry for these girls and for you guys.

So yes, Youngster, this would not be a right apparel. I agree. Neither are deep cleavages, super mini skirts and stuff jewellery making a woman look like a christmas tree. But mandatory long loose dresses, long sleeves and bonnets? well this would a bit over the top, at least in our Western culture.

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Posted : 19 Aug, 2010 09:05 AM

I think it's about our attitude. If we're wearing clothes or doing things to show off/exhibit/seduce with our physical features(i.e. like what most guys/girls would wear to a "club"), or to artificially make us feel better about ourselves...then I think we need to think about why we're doing it. Our clothes and our face don't make us a better person. If you can find a reason besides insecurity/vanity to do/wear something then I think it's fine. And if the girls have to be uber-modest, then the guys do too! No more short sleeve shirts that show off your muscles!:rolleyes: Anyway, I think they're right. Some guys will lust after someone even if they're wearing a burka, so I don't think we should worry TOO much about other people**, we need to worry more about our heart/motivations. Are we cultivating/clinging to pride, or striving for a humble/self-sacrificing attitude?





:peace::peace:



**(Maybe a little though, it does help. Some of of the stuff people wear now is a little distracting. When you're wearing clothes that scream, "LOOK AT ME!!", it's kind of selfish/hypocritical to ask people to try not to look)

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Posted : 19 Aug, 2010 05:06 PM

Paul says that women are to council young women.

He also says that men are to council young men.

Women should address young ladies on how to dress.Young men have no bussiness discussing nudity on this issue.that also means making personel comments about painting women and girllee dancers. those kind of issues should be discussed with a little less color. that is why Paul said what he did. men who talk about such things I have known. when talking this way to young ladies who are not saved they think you are a sicko and reject the message.



I refuse to discuss detailed relations with women because it is inapporite. We are to let the women of God address it.Are job is to bring the gospel of jesus first.



As a man I will not talk about a young ladies dress habits to her.It is the job of the women in the church to do that.

Youngster you need to trust God will address that issue. As a man I can not talk to a young lady about certain issues.



What am I saying here??????? As a older man I have known men abuse young girls in church leadership. How they dressed meant nothing. So, I being a witness can not address women as you did. I have to keep my self far from every being even seen as questionable.I am doing what Paul wrote here.Women council women, men council men.



Things happened to a friends family.I have also seensome christian men just tear into women about isues about sex.

They said things that would make the unsaved girls blush.

Paul had it right. you must use Godly wisdom.Dennis

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Posted : 24 Aug, 2010 06:15 AM

You'll reap the wrath of liberal american Christianity for this one my friend. But you are right on target. 87% of americans claim to be Christians, but immodest apparel is just one of many indications that can't be true.

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Posted : 25 Aug, 2010 05:40 AM

I want to put something in on this topic regarding the fact that people are different. None of us have been raised in the same families and so there are major differences... especially within different countries and cultures!!



When I moved to Russia, I was shocked at the women and at the men! BUT it was acceptable Christian culture here! Most of it probably would not be in my home church in Canada. I still struggle with it at times but God has also taught me from it and I am also able to teach others...



So, before we judge or assume something let us try to look at a bigger picture.

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Posted : 26 Aug, 2010 02:43 PM

Our plan of salvation is between us and God.We are to use wisdom and council from our elders. I feel my earlier post are right on. Weather in Russia or England, even here in the USA. We are not to say who goes to heaven or hell.That is Gods call.This thaught process has gotten other in trouble with Jesus.:peace:

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Posted : 28 Aug, 2010 08:21 PM

I read your post. As far as I can tell you are projecting your issues onto others in order to minimize your personal conflictions and guilt. Classic substitution. If you wish to quote scripture then let me remind you that without love; nothing. Your words are void of all but seething anger. You need help. Spiritually and mentally. Women do need to do their part; but we must address ourselves.

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Posted : 29 Aug, 2010 06:44 AM

So you think women whose figure and the shape of sexiest parts of the body is exposed is MODEST women? You think God gave sexy shape to a woman so that every man could see that?

Just forget what offends me now and answer these questions please.

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