Author	Thread: I need some advice please...
Admin	I need some advice please... Posted : 14 Feb, 2010 09:55 AM I'm going to do my best to sum up this situation because this would be a very long post if I gave every tid bit of information, but if more is needed I'll gladly give it to find a solution. My partner at work is a dear friend of mine. We were friends before we were partners. She is married to a man that I was friends with a long time ago, before they were married. Now that I'm around them more, she has come to me for advice about their marriage. Her husband is very jealous and possessive. He is jealous of anyone she gives any attention to, including her daughter, so it's not just other men. I've witnessed these things myself. A male coworker of ours asked me to swap a shift with him (he would be working with my friend); the husband said to me, "Nobody asked me about that!" I believe he truly is so insecure that he tries to bully everyone to try to grasp at any and all control he can. I'm not saying that my friend is perfect; she has trust issues too and admits it. And no one really knows what goes on behind closed doors. So, my question is..what am I supposed to do about this? How am I supposed to act? It'd be very easy to deal with if he didn't come to her work, but he does. He gets mad at her if she doesn't call him as often as he thinks she should, or if all the phones are down and she can't call, or if we're on a stand-by in an area without phone service, or if she eats supper without him, or if she asks a question, or ANYTHING! They read each others text messages and fight. They are always fighting while we're at work. And when we're not, he gets mad if she talks to me for too long. When he comes to visit her, he acts like he runs the place, and he is not affiliated AT ALL. Post Reply
View Profile History	I need some advice please... Posted : 15 Feb, 2010 06:06 PM Her husband is very jealous and possessive. He is jealous of anyone she gives any attention to, including her daughter, so it's not just other men. I've witnessed these things myself. A male coworker of ours asked me to swap a shift with him (he would be working with my friend); the husband said to me, "Nobody asked me about that!" browneyedgirlky Hi has he been to a health Dr. to check his thyroid out? if it is off it can really mess up a person actions to a abnormal life. You start by seekng or asking a Doctor for advice, It sounds like it will take some professional advice on this one. GivenLife Post Reply

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