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mrcountryside
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What to do if wife wants marriage to endPosted : 25 Dec, 2012 02:25 PMI have been married to my wife for 12 years, we are both Christians and have 2 lovely children. We have always been very close & she is a very loving person. However the stresses of life including some of her health problems, and my job seem to have undermined our relationship and we have drifted apart. Having said this I was still shocked when she she said she wanted to separate 3 months ago citing my lack of attention and focus on her as a reason which I admit has some truth - I have asked her and God to forgive this, but unfortunately she doesn't think I will change. She has informed me that she has struggled with not being happy for a few years but has tried to hide this and deal with it herself rather than together which clearly cannot work. It's all basicaly down to isufficient communication. There is no - one else involved. |
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mrcountryside
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What to do if wife wants marriage to endPosted : 10 Jan, 2013 02:16 PMPerhaps I should clarify something. Whilst this is technically a dating site, it has great value in enabling Christians to find other Christians and provide a means to collectively encourage each other. Through this post I wasn't just seeking advice for myself, but feel that others (men & women) who may have similar problems could benefit from the posts being circulated & its been great to get the feedback above. |
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Lukia^
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What to do if wife wants marriage to endPosted : 11 Jan, 2013 05:25 AMSorry about this.When one is in it it feels like its the worst thing that can happen to anyone.What i can say to you is God works in good and bad for those who love him. |
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mrcountryside
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What to do if wife wants marriage to endPosted : 12 Jan, 2013 12:20 PMThanks so much Lukia that's very encouraging, as are many of the other comments that members of this site have taken the time to prepare. I'm very grateful and am focusing on getting closer to God, widening my circle of Christian friends so that I can encourage others through the gift of encouragement that God has blessed me with. I know in my heart that whatever the outcome God will bring much good out of it, & at the moment I'm handling it fairly well with strength that comes from the Lord. |
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algomaboy
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What to do if wife wants marriage to endPosted : 27 Jan, 2013 09:19 AMMy x wife did the same to me, she just left me one day. i read that your wife tried to hide her feelings from you. if I read that right she is in error not you. She chould have made her feelings known a long time ago. her refusing to go to counciling is also her fault. My x told me i did nothing wrong. you can write me in private if you want someone to talk too. Dennis |
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What to do if wife wants marriage to endPosted : 4 Mar, 2013 07:47 PMDear Mr. Country I've been on the other end of this spectrum. Trying to do everything that I could to save my "marriage". The deciding factor that I came to the realization of way to late, in our "marriage" was that only he could make those changes if he was willing and if he wanted too. I prayed til I was blue in the face I spoke the opposite of what his terrible behavior was to me. And unfortunately when it all came down to the wire he wasn't interested in giving up the sin he was in, to heal our marriage. But, as we attended many different forms of marriage counseling. I gathered many wonderful & useful tools that I hope maybe helpful to others. 1st one I would suggest you read is If Only He Knew by Gary smalley, Then His Needs Her Needs by Willard F. Harley Jr.& Love Busters by the same author,Then Sex begins in the Kitchen by Kevin Leman, If she's willing to watch a DVD FireProof and then both of you take the Love Dare challenge. It's a book associated with the movie. Yes! The GREATEST thing you can do for your wife is purchase a copy of Power of a Praying Husband by Stormie Omaritan. It teaches in simplistic words how to pray for your wife and what to pray for your wife on a daily basis. In order to be a Healthy, Whole person for her or the future Mrs. you have to be the best you can be and the strongest in the Lord that you can be. After you've done all you can to save your marriage in the natural stand back and see the salvation of the Lord thru reconciliation or His release whichever He choses. Alot of men not only neglect there wives, but, they also lay down there priesthood rites, they won't lead the family in any Spiritual area such as church attendance, daily prayer, Biblestudy etc. maybe even physical too. Which in turn causes a women to take on a role God never intended for her to take up. Then she has been forced to take the lead and usurps his authority. A man of God is supposed to lovingly lead his family not brow beat them and become a dictator . If you've fallen short in any of these areas REPENT before God ask for forgiveness then change the way you think & act. Ecclesiastes 4:12 And start over with the Father leading you.:)If you have anymore questions or comments please feel free to inbox your message to me. I'm here to help if I can:) |
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Jewels133
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What to do if wife wants marriage to endPosted : 13 Apr, 2013 03:59 PMPray for your wife. Have an honest conversation with her about it. If her chief complaint was that you weren't spending enough time with her, or paying attention to her, ask her if she would be willing to "date" you again, so that you have a chance to give her that. If she says no...then obviously there is more going on than what she claims. |
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What to do if wife wants marriage to endPosted : 9 Jul, 2015 06:04 AMHi Mr countryside. |
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Geel
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What to do if wife wants marriage to endPosted : 10 Aug, 2015 02:31 PMOur God knows the end from the beginning. He is the only One that can turn our mess into a message. Be still and know that He is God! |
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