Author	Thread: Clueless about his feelings
Early16 View Profile History	Clueless about his feelings Posted : 4 Jan, 2025 06:54 AM Last February, I went on an unforgettable solo island adventure here in the Philippines. During the trip, I met people from various parts of the world and became close with some of the men I socialized with. We stayed in the same accommodation, which gave us plenty of opportunities to interact. One of the guys I got to know during the trip surprised me by developing feelings for me. We had only met for a few days, as I had to return to work after ten days. He was one of the motorcycle drivers we rented from to tour the island. He was kind, respectful, and treated me well. We often ate meals together with our group of friends. I had no idea that he liked me more than a friend until he told me directly. At first, I thought his interest was purely platonic, and I didn’t think much of it. He even expressed his desire to visit my home and get to know my family, but I didn’t catch on to his intentions. At that time, I was only focused on enjoying my travels, not pursuing a relationship. Looking back, I regret not being more open-minded. I genuinely admired his personality, especially his respect and appreciation for my companionship. If I hadn’t been so clueless, perhaps we might have started dating for real. Although we still keep in touch, I find it awkward to bring up the past. Hopefully, in the future, I’ll have the courage to explore a connection with someone I meet, even within a short period. Post Reply
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile History	Clueless about his feelings Posted : 19 Jan, 2025 07:59 PM My advice would be to just continue to stay in touch, but if he is truly interested, he will mention to you about going on a date. That's nice you were able to get away on a trip and get to know new people. Just keep your heart open and you will find the man who you are meant to be with Post Reply
Early16 View Profile History	Clueless about his feelings Posted : 18 Feb, 2025 07:39 AM Hi Hazel thanks for your wonderful advice. I will remember and follow them. I hope you have a wonderful day. Post Reply
rbj66 View Profile History	Clueless about his feelings Posted : 20 May, 2025 06:27 AM Girl, do you have feelings for him? How long will you wait for love? Ask him if he is a Christian man. If he isn't, fair enough. If he is, take initiative. Don't regret not trying. He could be him. Or not. At least you won't wonder about it if you find it hard to find love. Post Reply