Some results of seeking the right person

Posted : 9 Jul, 2018 12:37 PM

Hello to all of you.

Yesterday I read in one man`s profile these words: "I never thought that ever will be on the dating site". Most of people who was born in 70-ies years have the same feeling. In my past wasn`t good to meet somebody thatnks to the announcement in a newspaper or later, in internet. They say that good person is like a diamond, everybody sees it and want to have such a person in own life to the very end of it. Of course, I thought that am like this. Real diamond that is only for the best or at least like me myself. In my case whasn`t the situation that many men proposed me. None of them. I dated once in my life, close to my 30-ty, two weeks. I was in love deep enough , we kissed a couple of time. Its need to write that in real life Its easy for me to be natural and friendly with most of people. But exist as well some subconsciuos programms which don`t allow to see that person who is the best for me.

So, two years ago I registered myself on the dating site for the vegetarians. I`m vegetarian from my 20 and would like to meet somebody who prefer milk, salads and cheese.

Great God, I was so naive that thought that there must be only vegetarians, only high moral people, etc. Yes, such a people are there as well. One guy shared with me that he lived 12 years as a monk in a buddhist monastery. Now he eats meat. He was really good guy. Other was very interesting in his messages to me. We discussed plants which grows in our gardens, sent one another funny poems and anecdotes. I even didn`t know his name. Was one more who just shared his likes and dislikes about the life in general. If be honest, I liked that time of communicating with those people. All of them where near my age. It was so easy and funny. But I lost the contacts because its necessary to do something, not just write to one another. To build a relations is a hard job. I never thought about this before. And later, like in an anecdote, I met in real life a man from that site. He wasn`t vegetarian, he liked alkohol and smoking and other things which I dont support. I thought that am such a woman that under my good influence he chages himself and very soon will be close to me myself. I mean, that expected that soon he will be saint. After this meeting I promised myself that never again will meet a man from the site. One month later suddenly I received a message from a man, who found my profile on another vegetarian site. I didnt deleted it because there was like in a bog, nobody wrote to me except those who where near 60. I just forgot that still am there. This new man sounded as if the God listened to my prayers. He was vegetarian, loved God even more than me myself and he as well lived 7 years in a Krishna`s monastery. I talked with him every evening, we read holy scriptures and discussed them. After 3 monthes of talking we met in real. And again it wasn`t successful. I couldn`t give him what he maybe expected from me. I`m not 16 of course, but am not ready to something what most men want to have from the first date. I don`t like virtual sex and sending naked pictures to one another. Even if I were a wife I don`t like such a things. Yes, its sinnful but I just really don`t think that such a relations are healthy.

Now I`m here. Its amasing that on this site are many really serious men who want to create a family. God bless all of them! But often I see in a profile the last sentence: "Any age". Is it true? Is it possible that its no matter which age the other person is? When I see such a words I think that this man is here just as an adventurer.

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