Author Thread: Single for almost 4 Years and Too Scared to have a boyfriend because have the traumatic with ex boyfriend
jeychrys

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Single for almost 4 Years and Too Scared to have a boyfriend because have the traumatic with ex boyfriend
Posted : 9 Mar, 2017 10:40 PM

What should I do? Too Scared to have a bf for almost 4 years because I have a bad experience that make me very traumatic till now.

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Single for almost 4 Years and Too Scared to have a boyfriend because have the traumatic with ex boyfriend
Posted : 10 Mar, 2017 03:04 AM

Don't force anything, right time and place for everything

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Haddassah

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Single for almost 4 Years and Too Scared to have a boyfriend because have the traumatic with ex boyfriend
Posted : 10 Mar, 2017 09:27 AM

Hi,

I think you opening your heart to simple friendships is a tiny but bold first step to trusting again. May be in a group setting. Part of the healing comes with the realization that there are beautiful, kind-hearted, mature and not so messed up people out there.



People sometimes mishandle others because they still have baggage to work through. We are all a work in progress but others are a serious work in progress. sorry about your experience but girl... don't close the possibility of meeting a great person. He might just be waiting for you to break out of your fear and show up :-)

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McFortune

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Single for almost 4 Years and Too Scared to have a boyfriend because have the traumatic with ex boyfriend
Posted : 8 Apr, 2017 08:59 PM

pray about it! the Lord will surely heal your heart and spend more time studying the word of God,get in worship songs, pull out yourself to him and he will come through for u, you also need to give limited chance to guys who come your way. dont just blush them off allow them to talk to u and for them to open up, evaluate them and look out for the trents of your ex in them. who knows one might be your soulmate. and remember just the way men have different facial appearances thats how they also differ in character#Not all men are the same.

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Single for almost 4 Years and Too Scared to have a boyfriend because have the traumatic with ex boyfriend
Posted : 18 Sep, 2017 11:25 PM

Stay single 4 more years...

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