Author	Thread: Would you end the relationship over this?
sisygirl View Profile History	Would you end the relationship over this? Posted : 19 Nov, 2015 03:50 PM You meet this special guy who seems to meet your requirements from a potential mate. With time you happen to meet his sister who happens to be unemployed, relying on her brother (your partner) financially. As time passes by you realize that she doesn't really like you since you could be a threat should you eventually be her brother's wife. You'll need to be informed of money coming in and going out of your home. You being the decent lady that you are and more concerned about her two little ones benefiting from your partner, you make it your assignment to help her find a job when you know very well that she despises you. But now she doesn't bother to apply. Doesn't seem to be interested at all in finding a job, let alone ensuring that the kids are getting an amount of child support from their fathers. Foreseeing this potential destruction on your finances should you end up being the wife, what would you do especially since your partner doesn't see anything wrong in all this, �his only helping out his sister�? Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	Would you end the relationship over this? Posted : 19 Nov, 2015 03:55 PM You meet this special guy who seems to meet your requirements from a potential mate. With time you happen to meet his sister who happens to be unemployed, relying on her brother (your partner) financially. As time passes by you realize that she doesn't really like you since you could be a threat should you eventually be her brother's wife. You'll need to be informed of money coming in and going out of your home. You being the decent lady that you are and more concerned about her two little ones benefiting from your partner, you make it your assignment to help her find a job when you know very well that she despises you. But now she doesn't bother to apply. Doesn't seem to be interested at all in finding a job, let alone ensuring that the kids are getting an amount of child support from their fathers. Foreseeing this potential destruction on your finances should you end up being the wife, what would you do especially since your partner doesn't see anything wrong in all this, �his only helping out his sister�? Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	Would you end the relationship over this? Posted : 19 Nov, 2015 04:10 PM You meet this special guy who seems to meet your requirements from a potential mate. With time you happen to meet his sister who happens to be unemployed, relying on her brother (your partner) financially. As time passes by you realize that she doesn't really like you since you could be a threat should you eventually be her brother's wife. You'll need to be informed of money coming in and going out of your home. You being the decent lady that you are and more concerned about her two little ones benefiting from your partner, you make it your assignment to help her find a job when you know very well that she despises you. But now she doesn't bother to apply. Doesn't seem to be interested at all in finding a job, let alone ensuring that the kids are getting an amount of child support from their fathers. Foreseeing this potential destruction on your finances should you end up being the wife, what would you do especially since your partner doesn't see anything wrong in all this, �his only helping out his sister�? Post Reply
ealltech View Profile History	Would you end the relationship over this? Posted : 3 Dec, 2015 03:30 AM ok. Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you end the relationship over this? Posted : 6 Jan, 2016 08:41 PM Yes because he is not helping his sister he is enabling her and your relationship reaps the consequences. If he is not willing to even "try" to end the unhealthy behavior there will probably be more issues that arise as the relationship continues...just my opinion hope it helps:) Post Reply
sword777 View Profile History	Would you end the relationship over this? Posted : 24 Feb, 2016 02:41 AM No. If that would be your only reason then do not end your relationship..... A man trying his best to help his sister unconditionally has such a big heart and that is a big points for a man. But taking advantage of his goodness/kindness without him acknowledging it....maybe he has his own deep reason. Try to ask & understand him fully and try to know yourself fully well also.... Trying your best in helping his sister to start to stand on her own is great and it will be beneficial on her part later on in her life, but she can not understand it right now....because of some reasons. Try to make her understand and love her more, that way she will be thankful to you later on in her life and will love you. Entering their family and their lives will not be easy for you as I can see it, but life is not that easy after all. What is important right now is that, you have a man beside you who has a big heart. Try to understand him and love him.... Make each other the best in each other's eyes especially in eyes of the Lord. Post Reply