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Foreign women working in Arab countries
Posted : 25 May, 2015 07:26 AM

hi there



Please explain me, why does foreign women working in Arab countries after a relationship??



I have been writing with such a woman, and when i then surgest her, i one day could fly down and meet her and see if we are capable together, she told me, this is not possibel, do to some rules in this arabic country.



This is not my first experience i have had about this. So i wonder, why does these woman working in arab countries seeks for men, when they cant meet with a man there?? I sounds so strange for me.



Could anybody give me a good explanation for this, for truly i cant find any.

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Foreign women working in Arab countries
Posted : 27 May, 2015 09:51 AM

Hi!



For someone who worked in an Arab country for 5 years, I think I understand the position of the women you are in contact with, as to why they prefer not to be visited.



First, and probably the most important, is that most Arab Countries prohibits single men and women who are not related or married to be seen in public places together. I assume that the lady that you pursue is not of the same nationality as you are so imagine how the concept of the two of you meeting in a public place would be translated by people around you: It would be presumed that the two of you are involved sexually or that she is soliciting sex for money. Under these circumstances where a lady's honor is compromised, both of you might face serious jail time.



My cousin who recently traveled to Kuwait for work, experienced her very first harassment by no less than the Police who mistook them as prostitutes simply because the taxi driver of the cab they were riding informed authorities that one of her companions wreak of perfume thus came the conclusion.



It's absurd right? But we must remember that these Arab countries follow a different set of laws which sometimes border on violation of human rights but it is, after all, their country. Anything you say or do to prove otherwise would only be futile.



Second reason, is that it is their place of work. Even if it's allowed for both of you to see each other, there wouldn't be much time and she'll probably be too tired to entertain you, assuming that you are of course going to stay there for a period of time. It also depends on what type of work she does. Unless, she files for a local leave which means less time for her to spend with her family in her home country.



So what I suggest, if you are really interested and willing to travel across the globe to see her, schedule to meet her when she'll be on vacation at her home country.



As to why these women choose to be in dating websites when the countries where they work restricts them to be visited by men, that I think is a question should be addressed by the lady you correspond with. The reason may vary from person to person.



Hope I was able to help.

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Posted : 28 May, 2015 07:51 AM

Ni dont want to visit them at there home country, one of the reason i am looking for woman at the arabic countries, is because it is closer to Denmark. I want to find one close to me. So it is easy, fast and cheap to visit her for a short weekend, to example friday to sunday.



I dont want to waste a lot of time and money to fly far away, for the first meet, and then when we meet, it turns out to be a big mistake.



So a woman living near by me, is the best. Better visit her short first time, and then next time arrive to example on wednesday, and then bring her back with me friday, for a weekend here. So she can see, if Denmark is a place she would like to live in.



And there also women who writes they are seeking for a man to many, do they think there should go 2-3 years before marriage, no i dont think any man will wait that long. And yes me neither.

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