Author	Thread: Tired Of Looking
Admin	Tired Of Looking Posted : 29 Apr, 2015 03:32 PM I know Christian men are told to pursue their women, but that has never panned out for me. So this is my new approach and I know I am not alone in feeling this way. Many Christian men I have talked to over the last 14 years feel this way as well. Its time modern Christian women got on board, because if you choose not to, you may well miss the man God intended for you. My new approach : Its a fact that no matter how many men pursue a woman, the woman chooses who she will be with. I no longer play the game. If you do not show any interest, I`ll just move on. I enjoy just viewing profiles to pass the time, until you find me. YES I am just as content being single as I would be being with someone else. So if your interested you know what to do. Post Reply
CuriousGeorge View Profile History	Tired Of Looking Posted : 30 Apr, 2015 10:45 AM Your new approach is 100x less likely to work out. That's just the way it is. Post Reply
View Profile History	Tired Of Looking Posted : 8 Jun, 2015 12:01 PM If he's genuinely happy single then those odds won't bother him. I can't remember the last time I looked at a woman's profile, let alone messaged or winked at her because frankly there's better things to spend my time doing and I don't really miss it either. Wonder how many other guys have dating apathy? Post Reply
eli2303 View Profile History	Tired Of Looking Posted : 16 Jun, 2015 10:35 PM "Its a fact that no matter how many men pursue a woman, the woman chooses who she will be with. I no longer play the game." That's the nature of the beast unfortunately. But if you don't participate in the "game", surely you can't expect nothing more.. "If you do not show any interest, I`ll just move on." I agree with that. If someone is not interested then why bother. However, it can be a tricky approach to things. I'd like to think that the number of men is far greater than females on this site. This means females are likely to be inundated by messages, slowing down their response time. So you could message a lady, then she takes a few days to reply- let that not put you off. On the other hand, if your "showing interest " is simply clicking their profile and registering a view, then i wouldn't say you are actually looking. "I enjoy just viewing profiles to pass the time, until you find me. YES I am just as content being single as I would be being with someone else. So if your interested you know what to do." Most women find it hard to initiate contact, which i find quite odd to be honest. Most of them appreciate being "hunted", although some are quite forthright. My suggestion brother is to involve yourself. Its all about odds. There is a 50% chance when your hat is in the ring, but there is absolutely zero chance if you're not in there. Above all, stay positive brother. Increase your odds by being on the front foot more. Post Reply
View Profile History	Tired Of Looking Posted : 27 Jun, 2015 02:53 PM I believe it is a mutual meeting of the woman and the man coming together. However, I believe that most of the dating consist of just that, dating. Another thing you failed to think about is for a commitment you want the one person who has many things in common with you. As a christian we truly need to be praying and seeking the LORD regarding our life mate. Also we need to pray for ourselves as well to be the best mate for our intended. Rushing into a relationship and throwing caution to the wind isn't good either. We are living in the end times and I believe as fellow believers we need a bible believing practicing christian. Many so called christians are worldly and are not CHRIST followers at all. Yes, I have dated so called christians that informed me I was too christian. The bride of CHRIST is not suppose to be worldly and tarnished. At least in my bible the KJV it doesn't talk about a worldly bride. CHRIST is coming back for his bride without spot or wrinkle. I would tell you to continue to pray and grow in the LORD. You only need one good woman. One who GOD has sent you. Often we feel rejected and think about giving up. But we must remember we are only seeking one and they will be the right fit. Think of each person as a puzzle piece, they are all unique. Often times we want to finish the puzzle and the piece seems to fit, but as you interlock the other pieces, you get a distorted picture. This is what it is like when we choose the wrong person. When you choose the right person, you are happy content and at peace. So I would encourage you to pray and thank GOD for bringing the right person in your life. We walk by faith not by sight. You also must not be double minded. Trust the LORD and continue to thank HIM for bringing the right person in your life. GOD Bless and may we endure to the end. Post Reply