Author	Thread: Feelings can be deceiving so don't rush them.
Admin	Feelings can be deceiving so don't rush them. Posted : 30 Oct, 2014 12:29 AM So there was this guy I came to know 2 months ago. He sent me a message here and went chatting further in facebook and viber. We don't have much same interests with the stuffs we love to do but I can't explain why we sustain conversations in almost like everyday even with different time zones. He says I am very refreshing to talk to and i feel exactly the same. I feel so comfortable talking to him. And we both have passion for music and play the same instrument though he's way so much better than me. Though we never talked on phone verbally since he said that he's not good in talking on phone and I respect that. I mean who am I to demand. Days have passed and i got to know more of him and even exchanged some pictures of our activities. I discovered some pieces of me that I didn't know 'til i met him. And I started to feel strange. A spring of a new feeling. As I don't want to misunderstand it, i consulted God about it and i started praying for him. I don't want to be deceived by my feelings. Its always been my prayer to treat my guy friends purely as my brothers and not to think of them as boyfriend or husband material. And I've never been into a relationship before. I'm also confused if he feels the same though i he told me that he likes somebody else but he said that he thinks I'm awesome and feels attached to me as i am to him. So i decided to give myself a break and tried not to communicate with him as I am assessing what i really feel and see if he tries to notice it. And he did. :laugh: so were still chatting now. I have come to realize my stand in his life. I am his friend and I'm also willing to be. I think its a matter of contentment of what you have with that person and never rush on to what you what really feel. I'm still praying and waiting. God revealed to me in His word to put my hope in His word and not to people nor to situations. Greater things are yet to come. Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	Feelings can be deceiving so don't rush them. Posted : 30 Oct, 2014 05:42 PM Wow, it's amazing how so many members here post on the forums with great wisdom stemming from their personal experiences, to later go "poof"...no longer to be heard from...interesting!! Post Reply
Singerella View Profile History	Feelings can be deceiving so don't rush them. Posted : 5 Feb, 2015 12:40 PM Thanks a lot for your story! It was very wise of you. Post Reply
Piland View Profile History	Feelings can be deceiving so don't rush them. Posted : 20 Aug, 2015 01:25 PM hi there i rushed and had desided to give up on looking for a lady friend thought i had lost faith in women, but just didnt take time to realize that i steal had bad feelings over my failed mairage but now i have my head on strieght and most of my friends are women. I'm sorry I gave them a bad rap. ( got my eyes open ) lol:angel: Post Reply