Author	Thread: How will you know
PRAISEGOD777 View Profile History	How will you know Posted : 27 Mar, 2013 07:35 AM How will you know for sure that God has send that person for you and not someone you had chosen. Think it is an interesting topic to talk about Post Reply
View Profile History	How will you know Posted : 26 Apr, 2013 12:03 AM indeed its an interesting topic to talk about. well, according to the word just as our faith is being tested for refinement,i think so as each relationship we have may it be friendship or more than that category. when the person stays by you despite seeing the mean side of you, and be there to hold on to whatever state of your heart to the state of any situation.; i think is a great barometer of knowing he/she is your God's will... Post Reply
View Profile History	How will you know Posted : 28 Apr, 2013 06:00 AM In the will of God, He gives us guide lines to choose a mate. God has made us a free will people that is why some draw near to God and others reject Him. Learn the guidelines God has set for you in His word. Live by them and then pray and trust God. I will tell you that in my dating experience I used to try to win over a Ladies heart by drawing attention to my self. It wasnt until I began directing ladies hearts toward God and not me that i found the one God had prepared for me. You see unconditional love is not about our own gratification but supplying the need of another. It took most of my life time to truly understand this. In general I was looking for a woman to fulfill my needs. This was an attitude that I was not fully concious of. Until the day when the Spirit of God broke through and revealed the wickedness of my heart. That is when i commited to leading ladies to God and I knew the one who would follow and appreciate my leading would be the one God had for me. The male female relationship is of leader and responder. God made women responders and we men need to lead. When a man leads a woman in gentleness, honor and love a woman can be the very thing she is... a woman... I was talking with a neighbor of mine and woman in her 60's. She has had to take on the leadership role and she had tears in her eyes wanting her husband to lead. The only reason a woman needs to feel like she has to lead is because the man fails to take the leadership role. But leadership is not dictatorship. Leadership is by example and dictatorship is evil. Men need to learn the difference between these two because one builds closeness and security and the other brings shame and hurt. Strength and Honor, Michael Post Reply