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TomDL56

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Posted : 12 Dec, 2012 08:39 AM

So many profiles I've encountered, it is often stated, "I want to have fun." What does that mean? If it means what I understand many do for fun, I wouldn't touch you with a 10 foot poll.



Another scary statement is, "I'm up for anything." What does that mean? If you are truly "up for anything," I'll stay away from you too.



I see so many that call themselves "Christian," and yet the rest of their profile suggests they don't have a clue what being a Christian is all about.



Now that's the majority. There are some who show themselves to be fine Christian ladies. I found one I really like. That's one out of hundreds. If guys come here looking for decent Christian girls, lots of luck.



This is not the only Dating Site I have found these things. It's a problem on all of them.



:buddies: Having fun? :toomuch: Having fun? I need a :Mug: Having fun? What is having fun for a Christian?

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Posted : 12 Dec, 2012 03:01 PM

so if someone's profile state that they like to have fun you automatically assume its unclean fun and go on to even question their Christianity? and then you move onto the next profile? really???? :rolleyes:

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Posted : 13 Dec, 2012 11:45 PM

Not all the time, George. I look at the profile in total. What they say, and their pictures, if they have any. If they say they like to have fun and and in their pictures they are showing a lot of skin, it is an indication of what kind of fun. If they are in a bar, that also indicates what kind of fun.

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Posted : 14 Dec, 2012 02:35 AM

I am up for anything, i want fun and many others we read, are nothing but states of mind of the writer f the profile owners. We must understand that from the word go. While the literal meanings of those renditions may hurt chances of reasonable and conservative suitors from coming along, we must also realize profile writers also have their targeted audiences, so if its not you, then those who like fun will quickly resonate and gravitate toward such fun doors!

Our choice is to look for what matches and completes us and hope God's light guide us. We must not be hopeless. Been here for weeks and you dont get a suit, can dampen any ones hope regardless or your creeds, age, race, influence. So we must keep hope abreast. Again, please never ever feel all you see here are Christianly decent. Some dont attach respect and sanctity to this as you and I may have done. Some still feel its a game place or a cyber village of games! My dear Brother, you keep looking for what pleases your heart and leave those un-understandables apart to where they belong. If you were to hear or read stories of what sometimes Christian do in closet, you wil wanna go heaven TODAY! But should we for that conclude all are like that? Remember what God told Elijah? He said I still have in this town 7000 thousand who had not kiss the alter or foot of Baal! 1 King 19:18- "Yet I will preserve 7,000 others in Israel who have never bowed down to Baal or kissed him!� Let us believe those 7000 are still here among us. I wish you best in your search my brother.

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Posted : 14 Dec, 2012 03:47 AM

Intent, intent, intent.........Why are we so reactionary? Why are we so quick to go to the negitive? Why are so quick to want to find the negitive in others?



Misscomunication and misunderstanding is on us the listener. Why else does the scripture tell us to be quick to listen.......slooooooooooooooooow to speak...........and slow to become angry.......



Do you think Jesus had fun at the wedding? Or fun with His deciples eating together?



Do you think the statement of being up for anything could also mean that they would follow Gods will? A surrendered individual?



We as adults need to learn to lighten up a bit and try to understand rather than find fault.



Who wants to be in a relationship with a fault finder?

or

Who wants to be in a relationship with a grace giver?

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Philipian

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Posted : 14 Dec, 2012 04:50 AM

@Letthismind2, at this point and this time i might have to be directional. Please in the above renditions you have been reading. Who among the threaders exactly is hammering? It may be better if you are straightforward and hit on whoever is "reactionary", on whomever is fault finder" or whomsoever is apt to miscommunication.? Please can you let your comments go direct to the source, rather than map people together. It would do well and remove offenses. Better its done speedily.

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Posted : 15 Dec, 2012 04:42 AM

Phil,

This is part of all of our natures including mine. I was included in the we.



I hold to my statements touching the very core of who we are as individuals and corporatly as the body of Christ.



That those who are convicted might repent with me and live.



You see my ministry is not to issolate out anyone individual but to speak plain truth to all. Truth that hits right on the mark of a individuals concious that the love of God might be magnified in their heart and mind through repentence.



Blessings sister.

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Philipian

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Posted : 15 Dec, 2012 06:57 AM

Letthismind2, Maybe you put a good statement on an inaccurate perspective then perhaps!

"You see my ministry is not to isolate out anyone individual but to speak plain truth to all. Truth that hits right on the mark of a individuals concious that the love of God might be magnified in their heart and mind through repentance.". Thats a classic truth. Any man who is truly Born again and oppose that trend of knowledge does not know God. As such, we should ask, "had any so far cross the Rubicon of such infallible truth?' Well to my knowing, I dont think so. Its what everyone firmly believe. I personally believe in "Do not Judge". I had been judged in the past without even a chance or shot at explanation, until God eventually vindicated me, i know how it feels and I will not do to another. No one is judging.

Respectfully @ltm, And were these all part of human nature, the man born again is now given a higher nature. The very nature of God and the life of God to do what is just and right. None must isolate, cos Christ came to die for all men including me PHILIPIAN, being chief among them back then!

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Posted : 10 Jan, 2013 01:46 AM

Christianity is not boring...



Being saved doesnt mean you can be boring. We all have characters and must be fun loving persons. Play games, sports and have group retreats. We have spiritual talents that should be and can be exploited which creates fun.



Christianity should be full of life, not boring.



We should be spiritually natural and naturally spiritual.



There's a season for everything and Christianity should not be boring.



Angellite

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