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natalie9387

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Posted : 28 Nov, 2012 08:12 PM

What have been your worse and best dates? My last date was a worse date for me because the guy stood me up without giving me an explanation what so ever.



Best date for me has yet to happen all my dates since being single have been bad hahahaha :ROFL:

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Posted : 29 Nov, 2012 02:34 AM

Natalie, i feel you. Sorry about all of that. Look up. It will happen still. Personally i hadn't experience that cos i watch a lot who i call out for a date. I often study them and read their persons well enough, no matter how short a time i have near them. These helps me know,,whether they are the forgetful type who can knock off an appointment for nothing, just simply because he'd forgotten.Or someone who don't see my date with her as priority is another type of flaw you must watch for.

Generally I have learned, don't bank on it if its not worth the bank! For your person, do not worry, you seem to me a person who knows where she is going. Leverage on what you do to get what you want, especially if what you do in life gives you lot of happiness.

Wish you the best.

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Posted : 29 Nov, 2012 04:03 AM

As soon as I stoped putting so much pressure on the result of one date all my dates began to have something good even sitting and haveing a soda together.



You see when I relaxed and realised I am getting to know a person created in the image of God even if they were not Gods choice for me I could just have one date and have fun with it.



Rather than focusing on finding the negitive try looking to find out what you do like. I had many dates with ladies in whole I wouldnt want for a long term relationship but I could find somethings that I appreciated and could say to my self that is a good trait for me to have in a partner.



As singles we tend to be hyper sensitive about negitive traites but negitive traites are in all of us. Take the oppertunity to see what negitive traites you can live with and forgive regularly because relationship requires forgiveness and understanding to survive and thrive.





Blessings,



Michael

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Posted : 30 Nov, 2012 12:18 AM

On the overall, i think we should not be too tight handed on grips. Relax. Sometimes too I have found that when you are overtly too pace setting and demand-driven and result-oriented, you may be able to create a standard, but I can be sure that you may also found that you are falling under the weight of that standard and expectations created by you.

In the overall, let God lead you. Be led. As many as are led by the spirit of God are called the sons of God. (Rom 8:14). God's leading makes your search (dates) faster than when you lead yourself!

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Posted : 23 Dec, 2012 02:49 PM

Hmm let me think

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Posted : 23 Dec, 2012 02:49 PM

Hmm let me think

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Posted : 17 Jan, 2013 04:54 AM

My best date happened about 3 years ago lol

Me & my ex just have a walking date for a kilometer distance. Simply yet so memorable because we were just being ourselves. No over acting, no demands & what so ever. We just talk about things which we're fond to talk on. BEST DATE RIGHT? :D



My worst date was ......

Let me think .. Uhmmm ......

I FORGOT! lol remember, its WORST DATE! haha I don't want to talk about it anymore. XD

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Posted : 25 Jan, 2013 04:04 AM

worst date? my ex & i are newly dating, he invited me to have lunch at their house..on the way there, i accidentally stumbled over a ledge while we were crossing the street..maybe i was trying to be all poised & all..when we were at their house already, i bumped my head on the corner of their hanging cabinet, dang it hurts! then over lunch, my spoon just broke into 2pc & his sister laughed out loud. embarassing. & it all happened in 1 day! lesson learned..be yourself. made me smile everytime i think about it :)



best date was at starbucks..i realized there's nothing better than have a nice conversation over coffee..where you can relax eventually and really get to know the other person & talk about a lot of things.

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