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FlyinHigh

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Posted : 25 Dec, 2010 04:06 PM

Why is it some people think it is okay to wear revealing clothing on a christian site? For me I think you are advertising your body instead of your mind. A man that follows the word doesn't want a woman who is overly vain and overtly sexual, it is a turn off to me, how does everyone else feel about revealing clothing?



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Posted : 5 Jan, 2011 05:41 AM

mrwiseguy---- this is off topic but I'm curious---- Why do you keep addressing Fly as Mr.?

The mr is in front of your name; not his.

Is it because you respect him or could it be a little sarcasm on the part of someone who is constantly asking people to be more respectful others?

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Posted : 5 Jan, 2011 06:20 AM

Well,i just put the"Mr." as respect to him,but i understand what you mean.It's just that's my way of talking to people that's all.Even at work,i have a habit of calling people "Sir" ,even if i know them for a while & they'll later tell me to stop that.Excuse me,i was raised by my great-grandmother & my mother on manners,so i just can't help it!:ROFL:

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Posted : 5 Jan, 2011 07:51 AM

I don't think anyone should be blamed for another person making the choice to deactivate their profile here.

Just like,as women, we make our own choice as to how we will dress--- if someone leaves the site that's their choice.

Most who leave come back under a different name anyway so mrwiseguy I wouldn't worry about Luiz. He had a choice to read or not read any number of topics.

God Bless You All,

Deborah

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Posted : 5 Jan, 2011 07:33 PM

Thanks Deborah! You're so kind.Well i just want to say that he had no right to insult no ones' post or thread.For what he did,i'll be not surprised if he may be possibly banned for his rude messages.

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Posted : 6 Jan, 2011 09:33 AM

No,mrwiseguy, Lucy is back. He's showing his true colors in ask a guy.

He acts like he's crazy.:goofball:

Fly did the ladies on here a Huge favour!

I doubt Louise will be getting many dates.:ROFL::ROFL::ROFL:

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Posted : 6 Jan, 2011 01:25 PM

LOL @ Chevy = now that was funny.

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Posted : 7 Jan, 2011 04:57 PM

The apostle paul was inspired to write certain things by God.He had insight that we need on all issues.that is how come I with drew for a few days.

We all have sinned and fallen short. Not one of us deserves anything good from God. Paul also wrote that women are to council women and men council men. This is good advice. All scripture is given for a reason.

Women are to tell young ladies how to dress.

men tell young men how to dress.

On very rare occassions did Jesus meet a woman by herself,only one that I know of. In that other post fly you said that I was wrong. Why would you say that? The word is never wrong.I took my statement and put it here.

WE ALL HAVE SINNED AND FALLEN SHORT.

IS THERE ANYONE OF US PERFECT????????

You do not give a baby a steak to eat fly.

Their are baby christians here who read these post. When a mature christian is hammering everybody he disagrees with by name calling and making judgements with out do cause what does that say about you and me?????

I took the few days off to think.

There is no such thing as straw man tactics!!!!!

Nobody here is a troll, a muslim or anything else.:peace:

I did think about this ok.

self respect is also speaking gently to those who disagree with you. people who have a control issue result to name calling and badgering. is this what jesus would do??????

Just some passing thoughts on self respect.

respect is counciling baby christians in gentle love.

What of forgivness???????????

those who have a forgiving heart do not take offense quickly. :prayingm: in several post fly I have read somebody saying to you to be gentle.

Last it is God who decides who his followers are. Not me, not you, not luiz, not chevy--------> notice I put myself first here. name calling and misspelling Luiz's name was not anything more than sin. You have seen here that I took time off to check my attitude, should you too????

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Posted : 7 Jan, 2011 05:19 PM

Dennis,

If Louise is a follower of Christ then I'm in the wrong line.

Not calling him luiz was simply an attempt to get his attention.

I certainly don't believe it was a sin. How are you so sure he isn't a Muslim?--- not that it matters cause God can save them too!

I've seen men in the biblical section show disrespect to each other as well as an older woman and you never said one word about it ===== as a matter of fact your only response to some terrible insults was (:ROFL:).

What's up with that?

And now you are calling Fly and me out because you didn't like some things said here?

WOW!

chevy

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Posted : 7 Jan, 2011 05:46 PM

Chevy you did not read my post or you only read what you wanted too. I put myself first several times as the lead person. I also said ALL HAVE SINNED AND FALLEN SHORT.

where did I not list myself first?????

did you read what you want to read here???????

Some times I have read an entire post and thought it was stupid. they were fighting over something that was humorous at the time.

Since I listed myself first where is your complaint?????

Since I said, we all have sinned and fallen short. why would you say wow.

maybe my few days staying away from this post inspired me to write a message from God.

In the past I have admitted to being sarcastic.I think as a smart guy you know when somebody is just being a jerk and when God may be speaking threw them. I also mentioned Luiz by name ok. reread the whole post again and this one,ok. Do we as Christians allow are pride to get in the way when God wants to speak.

If he is what you think then maybe your response should have been geared towards telling him about Jesus and the salvation message. The unsaved need to be saved.

not calling names. A wise man receives correction with a happy heart. I believe you wanted to think I was calling you out. I was calling all of us to attention. I did mention me.right??????????????????????

Your brother in christ,Dennis

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Posted : 7 Jan, 2011 05:56 PM

And I don't think Jesus' voice was soft and gentle when He said------ Ye fools, did not he that made that which is without make that which is within also?

Woe unto you , scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For ye are as graves which appear not, and the men that walk over them are not aware of them!

I never pictured Him as being gentle in Lots of the things He Spoke. I think He was LOUD on more than one occasion.

chevy

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