Author	Thread: Christian men treat women the WORST!
artistic View Profile History	Christian men treat women the WORST! Posted : 20 Jun, 2009 09:19 PM In my experience, men who claim to be Christians don't treat women any better and usually treat women worst than other men! :stop: Post Reply
View Profile History	Christian men treat women the WORST! Posted : 7 Jul, 2009 10:16 AM dear ashton, i welcome your contributions here. even if ya dont agree with me. were not always gonna agree here... its ok we can still have a good discussion.. maybe learn from each other.. each christian has the HOLY SPIRIT to help convict us of our sins... maybe some appear to quit fightin it as much as others.. that dont mean theyre not havin a struggle goin on inside of em.. good fightin evil.. see as janine said if we sin at any time.. theres always a price to pay for it.. us as christians will be chastised for it.. and we will pay the price for it.. dont never think youre gettin by with anything hehe.. we can pay for it here or we can loose treasures in heaven... and the non christian if they die before they accept JESUS as their personal SAVIOR and dont ask forgiveness then their price os dyin and goin to hell. and not livin forever with our MAKER. thats the difference.. does not treatin someone right make someone a christian? no it doesnt. does not treatin someone right make them a non christian? no it doesnt.. one thing to keep in mind here ,same as in real life so to speak.. the site says christian and your church says christian.. doesnt mean everyone here or there are christians.. an athesiest can come here same as walk in your church.. a non believer can come here same as a believer.. you really got to dig and take alot of time to figure out folks.. as some are really good at hidin who they are.. and then youre also gonna have some christians who are strugglin daily in their walk. same as you and me.. they struggle.. we struggle. some win the battles today.. some dont.. but each christian struggles daily.. some sins you may know and some you may not even realize that youre doin.. so never think of yourself as the one true and perfect christian until you are.. and that wont be till ya reach heaven... your borthers and sisters are the same as you .. just a christian.. and we need to look at em as such.. not look at em as if theyre below us... GOD dont look at em as less than you or me.. luke 15:1 -7 1 Then all the tax collectors and the sinners drew near to Him to hear Him. 2 And the Pharisees and scribes complained, saying, "This Man receives sinners and eats with them." 3 So He spoke this parable to them, saying: 4"What man of you, having a hundred sheep, if he loses one of them, does not leave the ninety-nine in the wilderness, and go after the one which is lost until he finds it? 5 And when he has found it, he lays it on his shoulders, rejoicing. 6 And when he comes home, he calls together his friends and neighbors, saying to them, Rejoice with me, for I have found my sheep which was lost! 7 I say to you that likewise there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine just persons who need no repentance. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Christian men treat women the WORST! Posted : 13 Jul, 2009 11:37 AM Cattleman, Great post...I think that should clear a lot of confusion up about being a Christian man...I know that I have to pray and stay in his word...To ask for forgiveness daily because I might sin and not even know it...It's a daily struggle but I strive to be perfect just like our Father is...I know that we all fall short and are like filthy rags...But, I know that with his stripes I am healed...Our God is so forgiving, loving and patient...Does it excuse a person that maybe keeps sinning the same sin??? No, of course not...It's about being delivered from whatever might hinder you from his throne of Grace...His Grace and Mercy endures forever...I pray that whatever any Christian man is struggling with he will cry out to God and sincerely ask for forgiveness... Princeofpeace Post Reply
View Profile History	Christian men treat women the WORST! Posted : 24 Jul, 2009 08:56 PM linnie41 extreme wisdom my friend,god judges the inside! Post Reply
ilovetheBible53 View Profile History	Christian men treat women the WORST! Posted : 25 Jul, 2009 04:44 PM Amen to that, my friend!!!! Post Reply
ilovetheBible53 View Profile History	Christian men treat women the WORST! Posted : 26 Jul, 2009 06:57 PM Oh oh I was saying amen to the brother that said we are all sinners and only by God's grace we are saved. Anyway... the amen showed up on my profile like I was agreeing that Christian men treat women worse than nonbelievers, when in fact I really don't believe that at all. I have many married Christian friends who are very happily married. They are godly women and men that sin but try to live a righteous life, and forgive each other when needed. It seemed like the conversations turned into something like if you treat a wife badly you are not a Christian....that's probably true...... IlovetheBible53 Post Reply
Sing4U View Profile History	Christian men treat women the WORST! Posted : 29 Jul, 2009 03:58 PM Well! here I go!!! I have read all the posts on this subject, and found that "all" of you were very precise, and correct in your bible quotes, and points that you made... Each of you had a different look at this subject, as did the apostles in the Gospel accounts about Jesus, and yet they were in total agreement!! And I saw the same conclusion in each of your opinions. That none of us(christian or non-christian) would agree that treating your spouse in that manner is OK! My point is; I see 3 Christians(and I believe you are) that actually agree on the main subject which is "Christian men treat women the worst" But I also saw the "subject" get pushed aside, and personal beliefs, and interpretations of The Word take over topic matter!!! Please take this with love and respect to each you--again I thought each of you made a very good point!!! But people around the world are viewing what "we Christians" say, and I'm a "FIRM" believer in living out The Word of God!!! I believe those that are of the Christian faith would agree on at least one thing: "THAT JESUS IS THE WAY--THE TRUTH--AND THE LIFE! And "NO PERSON" can get to God except through faith--believing, and excepting that Jesus Christ is Lord and Saviour! HERE IS MY POINT!!!! (and if I may be so bold as to say " Jesus would agree " ) that if we had to agree on ONLY ONE principal of Gods Word it would be """TO LOVE EACH OTHER AS GOD LOVED US""" So as Christians lets try to show the world that we are united in love, and forgiveness towards each other and others--that the Spirit of Jesus shines like the Sun in all of us, that those who doubt, and are at the bottom with no where to go!!! will see the goodness of God in us and maybe want to change their life through Jesus Christ! So please let's try to get over this denominational or non-denom. debate of The Word and let ''''GODS WORD BE TRUE AND EVERY MAN A LIAR"""....... With Gods love to each of you! Sing4you... Post Reply
Sing4U View Profile History	Christian men treat women the WORST! Posted : 29 Jul, 2009 04:28 PM In my post there was a clerical mistake when I said " I see 3 Christians" I meant everyone on here-----the 3 was hit by mistake!!!!!!!! Sing4U Post Reply
browneyestosee View Profile History	Christian men treat women the WORST! Posted : 1 Aug, 2009 07:52 PM I hate to have to say it but this is very true..I have been treated very bad total disrespect with demans that should not be coming from a man that lives for the Lord... I have been treated much more respectfully by my lost guys then guys that profess to be christian...it breaks my heart but this is very true. Post Reply
View Profile History	Christian men treat women the WORST! Posted : 3 Aug, 2009 08:12 PM i enjoyed reading all of the comments posted. You all seem to be ready to defend your beliefs. this is a good thing when done in love. as far as the comment that started this thread....we dont know anything about the relationships that she had with the christian men she has gone out with, or how they treated her, or even how she acted either. its like lighting a match and throwing it onto some gas! first i would like to say that being a Christian means that we accept Christ as our Saviour and accept HIM into our lives! once this is done, NOONE CAN TAKE THAT AWAY! AND NOTHING WE DO ASIDE FROM REJECTING CHRIST CAN KEEP US FROM HEAVEN AND A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM. just because someone acts unchristianly doesnt make them a nonchristian. A lot of us christians get wrapped up in daily affairs of life! this is where our relationship with Christ breaks down. we tend to get too involved in the daily rut! we sin every day. i believe no sin is any worse than any other sin. although society claims differently, GOD says that the only unforgiveable sin is the denial of Christ! so to me, if she didnt care for the "christian men" she was with, then maybe she could have just left them alone because abviously they werent meant for her. keep searching for the right one if you feel led to do this. obviously there are some great men on here and i would like to think i am one of them, but i am not everyones cup of tea (so to speak) either. our basic version of what the bible says about how to treat a lady is the same, but we have to realize that people are all different! in attitude, needs, beauty, and a lot of other different things and ways. not every woman wants a man to open a door for her, nor should she expect it either. neither should any man expect a woman to have to the house cleaned and dinner on the table every day! these ideas of how to treat a man or a woman are flawed! if they do happen then we should be thankful for them and show our appreciation for them being done. all of us are on different paths in life and just because we claim to a Christian doesnt mean that we need to be as close to perfect as possible, but rather let it be a cry for help and encouragement so we can strive to be the best we can in Jesus! so this way, if you come across someone who doesnt treat you as you think you should be, or if you believe someone isnt being as good of a Christian as they could be in a certain situation, then sit down with them and have a nice chat about it. get your bible out and sharpen eachothers blades so to speak! and if you are the one that someone has come up to, to point out a inconsistancy in your behavior, then try to see it as someone helping you to sharpen your knowledge in GOD's word, and dont take offense to it. lets love one another into submission of GODs word and ways, not bible thump our own views of what we think GOD wants! remember, some of us may be older in age, but just starting out as babies in our understanding and ways of GOD, but we (here) are still brothers and sister in and through Jesus! we may always have different views on certain subjects and even act differently too sometimes, but it doesnt mean we arent believers in Jesus Christ. sinners....yes, forgiven when we repent....yes! do we struggle....OH YEAH! but i count those as joys most of all! with love in and thru Jesus, hayden Post Reply
View Profile History	Christian men treat women the WORST! Posted : 3 Aug, 2009 08:36 PM i just want to add that i also believe that some of us tend to hold too high of a standard of perfection on eachother. especially in the dating world. this comes back to what i was saying about everyone being different. instead of complaining about how we were treated by others who were chritian as aposed to nonchristians....then maybe we should keep looking and praying for GOD to send the right one! and if you feel inspired to do so, then hold a dating class in your church. or write a book....LOL! being equally yoked is the key! and i believe this means Christian being with Christian! just keep the faith that GOD will provide a wonderful spouse thats just right for you, and dont allow others to ruin your view of Christians of the opposite gender! and also dont allow yourself to fall into a marriage that isnt equally yoked in Christ just because a nonchristian treats you "better", in THIS world. hayden Post Reply

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