Author Thread: This last date made me give up on dating entirely, have you had that happen too
HazelEyesSparkle

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This last date made me give up on dating entirely, have you had that happen too
Posted : 10 Feb, 2024 09:16 AM

I was talking to a man I met on here for about a year and a half. We got along and talked a lot, pretty much every day. Eventually, he said that we should meet. We ended up meeting and he told me he might be quiet at first so I said okay. I met him over the course of a weekend for three separate days because he stayed here for the weekend in my city.



I noticed anytime I would try talking to him, he would ping-pong it right back and never expound on any conversation to be had. I was trying to get him to open up a little. After meeting he ghosted me. This is after almost two years of talking, exchanging Christmas gifts, and me getting up at 6 am for work that day and meeting him after.



Later, I come to find on his profile that he didn't want to "see a girl's surroundings, but to get to know the girl" haha hilarious. I don't think so. I even tried going out to the city because I thought that would get him out of his shell.



Needless to say the whole experience was weird. We talked beforehand about our morals etc, how we view relationships, etc. He even said he forgot one of our conversations even though I had told him prior. He also kept asking me are you affectionate?? I told him in a relationship I am.



He also texted me after one of the days and said you went home early, even though I had spent 5 hours with him! Going to dinner. I made a lot of effort to get to know and everything but even the barista at the coffee shop we went to gave him the cold staredown so I think people had him dialed before me. What do you think happened? It has made me not want to pursue anyone further or get into a relationship at all. In fact, I have made a vow to give up entirely.

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This last date made me give up on dating entirely, have you had that happen too
Posted : 8 Oct, 2024 05:14 PM

It's hard to know what happened, we only got the side of your story.

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This last date made me give up on dating entirely, have you had that happen too
Posted : 8 Oct, 2024 05:41 PM

No ma'am. Y'all should be asking us questions instead. Why is this happening? Some self reflection is needed. Men are reacting to something y'all are doing, you have to figure out what that is.

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