Author	Thread: shattered in peices!
Delight_74 View Profile History	shattered in peices! Posted : 22 Jan, 2010 02:51 AM Im 35 years old with 1 son.....I dont know if this the right place but seems to me theres a lot of poeple here guided and have a heart of Jesus.i was married to a guy at first he is nice...but along the way slowly he changes , he have a dark side on him that he wanted me to have sexual relationship with any other guy ihere in my place ,since we live separate each other im from phil and he is in Us....we only chat us our means of comunication and some times calls, since we are married only exchanging sexy words we can do and show our body which i dont mind because we are married ..but he changed each time he wanted me to have guys watch me and ever prior to our chat..he is asking guys to chat to me about sex......i dont know what to do....he is verbally abusive to me too..i tried asking him to change and i said i will not do it.....but thats the start of our fighting......and the worst thing is....now seems theres something dragging me to do this naked show in cam ........Please help me.......and if i will break up with him seems its a big crime to do....should i stay and do what he wants and lost my very faith In God or should i leave and disobey God for leaving my husband.please HELP ME....im sorry i dont really know how to say the right words here. thanks for reading. Post Reply
IamIsabel View Profile History	shattered in peices! Posted : 13 Mar, 2010 07:24 PM Shattered, I have had a similiar experience when I was married. It is difficult because we are "one" with our husbands. He is accountable for his actions and you are accountable for yours. God's will be first and then your husband's. I agree with cattle man. Give him an opportunity to want to change. He should get some counseling because it sounds like he is in pretty deep. Hard to break those lustful addictions. If he refuses, sorry but that would be my ticket to leave. His actions are not biblical. If he is not willing to change, you do not need to be a part of it. Refuse the ungodly acts. Have you considered a legal separation until he gets his act together? If you think there is still hope for the marriage then that may be a better option for you. I pray God will give you the right decision to make and you will hear Him. Post Reply
Delight_74 View Profile History	shattered in peices! Posted : 25 Mar, 2010 03:56 AM thanks for all replies.....im here again...trying to get your precious i have told you my problems about my husband and just recently i have found out he have other girl for quite long now....its hurt me so much...now its clear to me why its easy for him to order me those things and show no care and love to me, i aksed him and he told me the truth and admit it, he is coming to meet the girl,He told me i and my son is his first choice...but its only very hard for me....i thought i was only struglling about his sex life now i know theres a girl. He told he will support my son for 100$ a month..abd told me not to go in consulate. it will stay between me and him, he said i cant ask for support because we are only married here in philippines and our marriage is not recognize in america.....he told me i will not attemp to ban him coming here since he can get a girl without setting foot in philippines.....i only want to for my son.we are married..he carries his name..why he treated less because he is here,i really dont know what to do.....when God take Israelites out from Egypt God makes egyptian favorably disposed to Israelites......i want to put a stop in evrything .....i just want to fight for my son rights..but i dont know what to do..please help me..God bless you all. Post Reply
carmi View Profile History	shattered in peices! Posted : 17 Aug, 2010 07:38 AM Although this is a late reply, I pray that somehow it will reach you. Firstly, I hope you have made legal actions to separate from this man who appears to have a demented view of sex and marriage and has a severe mental disturbance that is not normal for a married man. He is a sex pervert. Secondly, ask legal advice regarding your son and his rights. However, as you say, the marriage is in the Philippines and not in the US, so you must accept the fact that you will need a lot of paperwork to claim support from this guy who is in the US, even if he is the father of our son. That's just the way it is. Thirdly, get employment and work for the future of your son. If the man does not want to give you support for the son, then you do something to support him, after all you are also the mother. Regain your self-worth and do not degrade yourself any longer by "begging" this man for money for your child, God is Faithful and He will help you. Ask God for work and He will answer you and show you He is Jehovah Jireh you TRUE Provider. Lastly, seek God with all your heart and pour out to Him all the hurts and mistakes of the past. Immerse yourself in His Word and He will direct your path. "Delight yourself in theLord and He will give you the desires of your heart." (Psalm 37:4) Post Reply
Delight_74 View Profile History	shattered in peices! Posted : 19 Aug, 2010 09:00 PM hello carmi..thanks for the reply and advice..and no its not really late...problems and situation like this cant be solve overnight....i still feel uncomfortable with all of this, theres a lot of emotions feel bad, hurts, hate..fear,,evrything .....But God rescue me....He gave me Job now..its not ordinary job to me because i have to teach kids...im happy now, i have peace....trully the word of the Lord is true.according to psalm 23 ;1 The Lord is my sheperd i shall not want, He makes me to lay down in green pastures, He leads me beside still water, He restores my soul, He leads me in the path of righteousness for His name sake, though i walk trough the valley in the shadow of death fear no evil.for thou art with me, your rod and your staf comforts me you prepare a table me in the presence of enimies you annoint my head with oil, my cup runneth over , surely goodness and mercy shall fallow me all the days of my life and i will dwell in the house of the LOrd for ever...thanks for advice once again. God bless Post Reply

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