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Jayzeee

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Posted : 24 Dec, 2024 12:02 AM

I received a brief message requesting a photo of me “as it helps on a site like this”. From a man whose photo & profile didn’t peak my interest.

And it made me realise that some men think that women of a certain age are desperate & they have to make zero effort to get the attention of a woman.

How off putting, I don’t send my picture out to random men who request it. I only ever send my picture to men I’m interested in getting to know in response to a well thought out message…:-)

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Handyman62

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Posted : 24 Dec, 2024 04:13 PM

It's putting conditions on whether a person can see a simple picture is the problem. In other words a man has to be good enough for you before he can see who he messaged.

You like most modern women think you deserve a certain unrealistic caliber of man without putting forth any real effort to achieve it. As I said in a previous post above. The men you want to attract aren't going to message you without seeing you first. But you don't seem to get that and the reason for it is you still get messages from a lot of men anyway. But these men aren't what you are looking for so you reject them. WHICH proves my point.

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LittleDavid

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Posted : 24 Dec, 2024 10:07 PM

Handyman. My financial situation is easy to understand. I’m working on my second million—I gave up on my first‼️‼️🤣😅😂😇🤞

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Handyman62

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Posted : 25 Dec, 2024 05:29 AM

LD you''re such an inspiration I believe I'll do the same.

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LittleDavid

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Posted : 26 Dec, 2024 12:14 PM

HM, I need to update my financial portfolio. I finally gave up on my second million. Now I decided to start thinking really big. Now I’m going after my first bill (billion). I’ll keep you updated on how that works out from my palacious chicken coup style castle‼️‼️🤣😃😇 pardon me, but I need to carry in more firewood

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Star730^

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Posted : 19 May, 2025 04:24 PM

I post my pictures for awhile and then take them down for awhile, no suspicious reason at all. Lol, just me.

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LittleDavid

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Posted : 20 May, 2025 09:26 AM

I take my photos down to give the other guys less competition‼️🤣😹😁😇

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Posted : 30 Jun, 2025 07:40 PM

It is a person's prerogative whether a person posts a photograph or not. I do not always post a photo. Nor do I trust photos. Who is to say whether a photo is of the person that is posting or not. Moreover, how recent is the photo. Some post photos of their former glory. Personally, whatever you post is a giveaway. FREE INFO. People collect what we write and what we post and collect our photos too which we freely give. Nothing is private on the internet. There are always unseen entities collecting info. So, better to wear sunglasses and a hat and strive for incognito. But true, our odds may improve when we post photos. Some are here just to pass the time and welcome conversation. Once in a while, one enjoys a good conversation. I write both people who post photos as well as some that do not post photos, but I have yet to meet anyone I write on this site. But ones that post photos of themselves may be more serious in their efforts to find someone. It is a form of transparency. Hey this is what I look like. I prefer full body photos to show the truest picture. Time saver photographs.

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Posted : 30 Jun, 2025 07:46 PM

You can write the guy, "Sorry not interested." But no one is requiring you to write a person you do not want to write or to send a photo to someone that you do not want to send a photo. Now we are very limited in how many we can write with our daily limits as non-paying members. Why waste our limit on people we do not want to write? Why upgrade to write people we don't want to write? Just don't write those you don't want to write. Save your words for people you want to write.

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