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Admin	I like a woman so much, but she doesn't know i exist! Posted : 28 Apr, 2020 08:10 AM I have a huge crush on a woman who is on this site, but is from South Africa. She is very much, my type! I think she is beautiful, but her account settings is set so she is only looking for a spouse in South Africa, and obviously, I'm not from there. I've not seen where she comes onto the site at all. My heart aches as I've been praying she would notice me. Ah well, such is life. If the Lord allows it. She is white, from South Africa. It sure hurts to be in this situation. Post Reply
alekk3 View Profile History	I like a woman so much, but she doesn't know i exist! Posted : 1 May, 2020 04:45 AM Why not tip his hat and walk away now? Well said!!! She doesn't know he exists. They've never communicated at all! Post Reply
T0TH3M4X View Profile History	I like a woman so much, but she doesn't know i exist! Posted : 1 May, 2020 04:47 AM His choice. A person willing to take risks will typically accomplish more. If it were me, I would "go for it", but be ready to step back if it didn't go as intended. Of course, he's not me and has to figure it out. Worst case scenario - She's upset he contacted her and asks him to go away, which he has the option to do. Best case scenario - She is receptive to him and his effort to make contact, and they get to know each other. Do nothing scenario - You never know what could've happened if you acted. Post Reply
alekk3 View Profile History	I like a woman so much, but she doesn't know i exist! Posted : 1 May, 2020 04:56 AM A person willing to take risks will typically accomplish more. If it were me, I would "go for it", but be ready to step back if it didn't go as intended. Of course, he's not me and has to figure it out. Worst case scenario - She's upset he contacted her and asks him to go away, which he has the option to do. Best case scenario - She is receptive to him and his effort to make contact, and they get to know each other. Do nothing scenario - You never know what could've happened if you acted.She doesn't know he "exists" period. She has restrictions on her profile settings for location. Is is healthy to have a "crush" on a woman or a man who you've never communicated with? Moreover, a woman who has clearly put restrictions with location on her profile for dating? We need to think with our heads and not our hearts. Post Reply
alekk3 View Profile History	I like a woman so much, but she doesn't know i exist! Posted : 1 May, 2020 05:02 AM She doesn't know he "exists" period. She has restrictions on her profile settings for location. Is is healthy to have a "crush" on a woman or a man who you've never communicated with? Moreover, a woman who has clearly put restrictions with location on her profile for dating? We need to think with our heads and not our hearts. Post Reply
T0TH3M4X View Profile History	I like a woman so much, but she doesn't know i exist! Posted : 1 May, 2020 07:43 AM She may be flattered by him going above and beyond. If it were me, I would be "all-in" until I at least see how she responds. If she says, "Get lost", then I would say "good enough" and be done. You don't win at anything by not trying. Saying he shouldn't think with his heart isn't something I would agree with. I think if you follow your heart, you'll live without all the regret. Just guard your heart and let God guide it. Post Reply

View Profile History	I like a woman so much, but she doesn't know i exist! Posted : 1 May, 2020 04:15 PM Toth: I agree with you! Much to the chagrin of perhaps, the female commentators. Post Reply
View Profile History	I like a woman so much, but she doesn't know i exist! Posted : 1 May, 2020 04:25 PM Good advice, follow your heart, let God guide it though, as the heart can be deceitful (Jeremiah) O.T. WIsdom too. I think it's a combination. She is never on this site. Lets say Toth, " a little birdie somewhere told her that there is a guy from Ottawa that likes her, and she can contact him if she wants.) Insert 10-metre smile here! IT was not VPN, by the way, but another way... My only problem is she is "never" on site of CDFF that I've seen. NO green or yellow light on her profiles. She may have forgotten about her profile here? I don't know, but hope is a very good thing. I hope. I pray. I also have had more meaningful prayers recently to the good Lord, as I seek Him for answers to my spouse to be. Whoever that may be. Insert another 10ft smile here: So, I'm glad. Either way. May she know! AMEN. Post Reply
T0TH3M4X View Profile History	I like a woman so much, but she doesn't know i exist! Posted : 1 May, 2020 04:30 PM Zee, I think you have the right idea and I wish you the best. Better to at least take a chance and see what happens, while keeping her feelings in mind. I think at the very least she will be flattered. You never know though. Hey, if it don't work, at least you can hang out with the rest of us and fuss about not having a date. :) Post Reply
View Profile History	I like a woman so much, but she doesn't know i exist! Posted : 1 May, 2020 06:35 PM True, Toth... Thanks. We shall see. Blessings! Post Reply
RetroMillennial^ View Profile History	I like a woman so much, but she doesn't know i exist! Posted : 1 May, 2020 09:41 PM Hi Zeetozee, I don't mean to be Johnny Raincloud here by any means. I hope I'm completely wrong about this and that she'll be receptive to your message, but there is another possibility that you have to be prepared for. The first person I ever tried to contact on this site never logged on to read my message. Sometimes people leave the site without deleting their profiles and there's no way of knowing if they'll be back. You lose nothing by trying, though. If it's meant to be, God will make it work and nothing will mess that up. It will work out the way it's supposed to be. Peace and blessings! Post Reply