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Players even in christian dating sites... how you can deal with it and not to fall?
Posted : 26 Mar, 2018 05:14 PM

I had more than one experience in this topic on here and is not nice. You just dont know anything about the other person and s even harder when that person s in another country.. but not all the cases re exact... is that i only met players on here.. unfortunally. God seems so absent here.. or is my imagination... God bless

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Players even in christian dating sites... how you can deal with it and not to fall?
Posted : 23 Apr, 2018 03:48 PM

Keep in fellowship with God's people it truly helps as a mark of maturity.

Loyalty to the people of God helps to keep us grounded.

Just don't do a relationship in secret as this is how the enemy isolates us and beats us up. Protecting our hearts by soaking in the word helps to deal with the loneliness & sense of not having what we want.

I pray God help you & all of us as we are only

human.

Trust me.

We need to know God hand is on us.

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Posted : 25 Apr, 2018 01:08 AM

I agree as there are some hurting people out there who have not sought help yet. So potentially if you bump into them they WILL HURT YOU.

So I agree we need discernment and if we struggle in that or just can't figure the person out. Then ask someone whom you know will not always agree with you but they will have your back &

prevent us from making a suicidal relationship even with a 'believer' SMH

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Posted : 25 Apr, 2018 09:48 PM

I had a conversation with person who felt that because they attend church but do not get involved in doing anything or socialising with the others that that was fine.



RED FLAGS



Really?



THEY pray...sing dance in church. But for me..

This qualifies as UNACCOUNTABILITY!



So you go to church *

But no one knows you?



I am afraid of the wolf & the Lone Ranger!



RED FLAG



IT'S like living in a caravan with some one whilst on holidays who says they don't do the washing up.



So you ask who does it then?



And they say;

"I don't know as the fairies come every night"



Have you heard that Christian story before?

LOL 😂😂😂SMH 🚫 😨

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Posted : 28 Apr, 2018 09:33 AM

This morning I had a very lengthy chat with someone who said he was a civil engineer based in North London. I have just logged on to see that he's been banned "yes" another scammer.

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Posted : 28 Apr, 2018 11:10 AM

Whoops!



That's awful so glad your ok, and found out person was banned in time.

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Posted : 28 Apr, 2018 11:25 AM

I was a bit taken aback because we'd had such a nice conversation. Thats why it's so important to follow the follow the guidelines (which I always do) because I didn't suspect a thing & I can usually spot them a mile off.

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Posted : 2 May, 2018 05:52 PM

I know my posts at times seem judgmental. But I think fear of God needs to return so that we see God as a loving Father who wants us to run away from obvious sin.

But to also trust Him. It is easier said than done.

That is why we need to ask for the Holy Spirit to empower us in these area's.



In our own strengths we have no power at all to overcome.



Paul wrote in the Bible. The things I ought not to do. I do. The things I should do I do not do.



This clearly telling us we need the Holy Spirit every single day of our lives to live victorious and to overcome our weaknesses - especially in the area of sexual purity and not sleeping with someone outside of God's laws.



In fact the Bible says 'you harm your own body' - I've thought about that & the sense I get from this warning is that you can become spiritually damaged - so by the time God has found a person for us we are not capable of handling the situation because we have damaged our own selves through previous sexual encounters. Then how can God yoke us to our right partners for marriage when we are spiritually yoked to another person we have already had encounters with? A Soul Tie.



In fact the Bible clearly shows that...



That is why we do not need to condemn others but to build them up in the faith so that they too can overcome temptation in weaknesses.

God help us all. x

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Posted : 4 May, 2018 02:10 AM

"Look, I am sending you out as sheep among wolves. So be as shrewd as snakes and harmless as doves."

Matthew 10:16

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Posted : 4 Jun, 2018 03:23 AM

Bronzetulip I don't think your posts come across judgmental at all. It's good that we can discuss different topics and share information about the online dating experience, and if it prevents others being duped its a bonus.

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Posted : 18 Jul, 2018 10:55 AM

I love your post. They are spot on!

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