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KellyMarie4
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Ladies beware of this guy on this sitePosted : 6 Jul, 2017 05:50 PMI met a guy on here in May of 2015, talked for several months actually probably close to a year. He is a compulsive liar and that puts it mildly. First he told me that he was in the military which I believe he probably was at some point. Told me he was trying to shot an officer who was abusive to women and accidently shot his best friend while deployed. So I'm thinking who would lie about something like this so terrible. I just really fell for him because we connected instantly. I noticed things like he just wanted to message, didn't like to call me. He always had an excuse. Told me his ex-wife cheated on him so they got divorced but was still married until just recently. Said hey paid a 1000 a week in child support and had his kids every weekend. That was all a lie. Turns out he had,a warrant while we were talking for back child support and domestic violence. He would send me text messages randomly that we're fake arguments between him and a co-worker where he would be threatening the other party and then send me a message and say oh that wasn't meant for you, I guess in effort to look like a tough guy. I went to go visit him in Minnesota and he sent me a text and it was supposed to be to his roommate saying to go to the store and get me something nice because I was on my way there to visit. But then sends me a message and says oh that was for my roommate I guess I ruined the surprise, needless to say there was no surprise waiting when I got there and I never saw or met a roommate. He was very sweet and nice while I was there for the weekend but immediately started acting crazy again as soon as I left. He called me and told me he quit his job and needed money. He asked me for 250, I sent him 150, then he finds a reason to start a fight with me over nothing, I guess in effort to not give me my money back..and I know that was so stupid I just can't even explain what I was thinking I was really just trying to see the best in him and hope that the feelings that I had about him being dishonest were just me being paranoid. Later like weeks later, I randomly get a few pictures of him sent via text just out of the blue in the middle of the night, I messaged him back the next day and he acted like nothing ever happened, then told me he got a new job working for a ranch owner and was telling me about all these fights he got into with actual Indians and how he was in a tree armed just waiting for them to come oon the property. Something is mentally wrong with this guy and he just lives in this fake world and tells it to whoever will listen. Things just got crazier and crazier and eventually I looked into things. I found out that he still has his original job and never actually quit, the story about shooting his friend was a lie... And like I said had a warrant for his arrest. Oh and he told me he had this big Dodge truck that was brand new, conveniently right before I went to visit him he said he wrecked it .Turns out he never had that truck and actually didn't even have a license when I got there and I allowed him to drive me around everywhere in my car not knowing any of this at the time. There's so much more, I could go on all night, it was just ridiculous. I could really go on and on but the reason I'm writing this is because I decided to get back on here and see about giving it another shot and he popped up and I saw that he has 44 Women who have him on their favorites and I just wish that I could tell all of them to be very careful don't believe a word he says and don't send him any money, he portrays himself as this really good guy and upstanding citizen, that is the furthest from the truth. I really think he is a psychopath or has some other mental disorder. He lives in Minnesota and is hispanic be careful. |
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Ladies beware of this guy on this sitePosted : 7 Nov, 2017 02:13 PMI totally agree with Irene, victim shaming is a narc trait. People fall, victim, because they want to believe in the good in people. Are there varying degrees of this? Yes, of course. Some so obvious it could almost question how the victim allowed it to happen. ALMOST. Fact remains is that the perpetrators are the ones to be blamed completely. The good thing is that the victims speak out and people can learn from them. I was the victim of a narcissist and believe me, it was nothing I wanted or sought. They are so cunning it's demonic. I love all the internet intelligence but nothing is more is more valuable then firsthand experiences from people who have lived through it and experienced it. I'm sorry you went through it. I can completely understand. |
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Ladies beware of this guy on this sitePosted : 2 Dec, 2017 07:43 PMSadly I've met many other 💝 scammers. On here. |
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