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Posted : 21 Oct, 2013 10:01 PM

1. "Everybody" here is an expert on dating (and still single).



2. Some men already have a wife, but still come to this site.



3. Or they have a gf or bf and they still visit this site. lol



4. The chat room says "Young Adults Live Chat" (18-29 years old), but it's "Christian" for 40-50 somethings to go in there.



5. Evil emoticons are allowed on a "Christian" site.



(please feel free to add more)

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Posted : 1 Nov, 2013 08:11 AM

Thanks Apostelle for defending us Filipino women.

I had my share of foreign friends who courted me but I declined because I am not willing to leave my country. Generally, we keep our families and care for them til we die.

I appreciate your comments.

diana

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Posted : 1 Nov, 2013 06:07 PM

Well said Apostelle.

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Posted : 2 Nov, 2013 11:40 AM

Apostelle,



"The reason way you see many American men "quit" American women is that American women hate men". Ummmmmmm......I just want to speak for myself and not for ALL American women........I most certainly DO NOT hate my American men or any other man for that matter......period!!!!

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Posted : 2 Nov, 2013 07:06 PM

Ive learned that:

- a lot of people here are visually stimulated;

- most have fitted you in a stereotype based on nationality, age, body type, gender;

- I have to take a lot of salt with me when visiting this site.

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Posted : 3 Nov, 2013 03:46 AM

I should have been more precise and said that they believed American women "in general" hated American men. For years we men have heard that we are misogynous. But a friend showed me a youtube video of woman who was into mysandry. She advocated that men in general be killed, except for a small population to be used for "breeding".



That, im sure, was an extreme example, but Im sure there are various degrees mysandrous women out there. Ive encountered a few. Like the woman who launched into a vitriolic feminist diatribe...all because I held a door open for her. I was informed in vulgar terms that she "was a complete person" who was "capable of opening a door for herself" and didnt need a (vulgar anatomical reference) to hold the door for her.



Im afraid my anger got the best of me and I told her "I apologize. My mother taught me to hold the door open for a lady, because a gentleman didnt enter a building before a lady. Its a sign of disrespect. Sorry, but I must have mistaken you for an actual lady".



In my defense, anger is not a sin. Our Lord and Savior was angered by the money changers in the Temple.

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Posted : 3 Nov, 2013 08:19 AM

Apostelle.....I'm not angry either, trust me(smile)! I just know who I am thru Christ Jesus! I do however understand "righteous anger" too my brother......I really do!

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Posted : 4 Nov, 2013 09:55 AM

I understand, HJMP. But I was talking about some friends, and one family member, who had given up on American women and their reasons for it.

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Posted : 5 Nov, 2013 07:42 AM

Yes, I'm so tired of this weird stereotype "American women are the villains, must get revenge and date women from other country because of one or two occasions I was treated badly by them" I think those men will also be dissapointed in the country they choose to move to because women are becoming independent everywhere, they will not take BS anymore and I'm not even American...

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Posted : 5 Nov, 2013 11:49 PM

It has absolutely nothing to do with "revenge", but I did notice a little bit of anger in your post.



It is just that some men are getting tired of feminist crazies. Most American women arent like that, but the crazies are the loudest, so they get the most attention.



One or two occasions? Youre joking, right? Out of the last 10-12 women Ive asked out, 5 of them were what could be described as man hating lunatics. One even referenced the Catherine Becker case and the feminist talk show "The Talk". She thought is was funny that a man was drugged, tied up, then castrated. I didnt even know what that show was, so I searched for the woman's name, the talk, and youtube. While they were describing what happened to the man, the female audience was hysterically. Suuuure, there are only one or two occurences. If you believe that, I have some swampland in Florida to sell you.

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Posted : 6 Nov, 2013 04:14 PM

Apostelle.....I have to piggy back on what you've expressed.....the level of frustration on both sides of the genders has reached an all time high!! The desire to just simply "get along" has come under such fire! Someone is misunderstood about something said....another is made to feel inferior about something they may have not accomplished in life....someone has higher expectations than the other....the list goes on and on!



Like Rodney said back in the day from L.A. (I know, I know I'm dating myself)......"can we all just get along(smile)?" My prayer will always be for Gods' love to over-ride the hearts of man, yet I honestly know that won't really happen until the return of Christ Jesus! Well I can still have hope can't I?.........

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