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I am so confused. Please help.
Posted : 28 Apr, 2013 05:03 PM

Ok, a girl on this site started talking to me the other day. I enjoyed the conversations we had and getting to know each other. Suddenly she sent me a message saying "May I direct this into a more serious direction?? Do you believe in the KJV as Gods living word? Believe in living each day as if its your last for Him??" I replied to that saying "I do believe in living each day as if it is my last for Him. Not the KJV so much. As long as you're reading the bible and you're able to understand it, I don't think it matters what version. I do try to read from the KJV but I frequently have to open up an NIV or an NASV to help me out. What about you?" I am now blocked from sending her any more messages. Did I say something offensive? I am so confused right now.

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Posted : 26 May, 2013 04:37 AM

MM,

Please forgive me if I have offended you. I find it beautiful womens craziness due to their great emotional capacity. Your emotional capacity as a woman causes you to say things that would be very hurtful right? Things you regret and didnt mean to say.



You see when a man understands a womans craziness he has no need to react but respond with love in such case. I am a male who understands women and the gender roles as God has ordained. I am not welocome in our modern gender neutral world that we live especially here in the states.



Part of the problem is that boys dont have good rolemodles in how to mannage a womans feelings and men just run, run and hide. We men are called to love and in love the truth in saying that women's craziness in a wounderful God given delight for us men. When we understand you ladies and love you ladies for who you are in all your great emotional capacity.



Then you ladies can relax and be just Ladies.



Peace be with you.

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Posted : 26 May, 2013 04:45 AM

MM,



I go into peoples homes and remodle their kitchens and baths. I am doing a kitchen for a family and the lady of the house has waited for 15 years to save for this kitchen. She has endured an ugly floor for this long. I can tell her and her husband have a great relationship and they are not christians. I have seen some really good marriages of people who know not Christ.



The thing that strikes me is how feminine and lady like these women are who are so loved by their husbands. This lady who for the first time had seen her new wood floor in her new kitchen did the little pounding thing on my shoulder out of excitement. It was so cute and unexpected and wounderfully crazy. A burst of wounderful emotion due to her excitement.



It really is a girl like expression and that she has the freedom to be just that girly. I breakes my heart to see women have to try living up to a standard that you were never ment to live up to. That is the role of men.



Blessings.....

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Posted : 27 May, 2013 01:48 PM

No offense taken brother, when you explain it so eloquently, I will have to agree with you. I am living proof of that. I have learned a very valuable lesson recently. That to assume is wrong and to let our emotions govern our mouths is even worse. Thank you for taking the time to explain.



Pro 27:15 A continual dripping on a rainy day and a quarrelsome wife are alike;

Pro 27:16 to restrain her is to restrain the wind or to grasp oil in one's right hand.

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Posted : 27 May, 2013 04:30 PM

No problem beloved, I understand.

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Posted : 29 May, 2013 05:41 PM

Just to add my 2 cents... Men are crazy too, just crazy in a different way.



Crazy and foolish are not the same thing. Crazy can be a good thing... keeps life from getting boring.

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Posted : 30 May, 2013 09:48 AM

Hello to you!



Such is normal in dating sites. Some times last week I met this wonderful guy from onother dating site that i'm the member of. We seem to connect very well, both parties admited that we feel at peace & enjoy each others compony.



When hearing from him, I would laugh before I even read he's massage, few days later he told me that "I always put a smile on he's face before he even reads what i've sent him" I wondered if the feeling was mutual, I really liked him.



Most of our conversations were rooted in Gods word, even when having differences, God's word would give clearity & bring back the balance, then the conversation would flow again.



This one time he asked me (as we were closing our chatt before bedtime) "if it was safe for him to call me he's women?" took me a while to answer that one (didn't see it coming at that particular time, maybe later. I eventually answered "yes it was ok.." The plan was to meet on that coming weekend, since we've never met inperson.



After we've exchanged cell numbers & bbm pin, i've never heard from him. Its about a week ago now. I don't know how to interpret he's silent, the only thing I know foresure it that i'm still at peace just as I was when connecting with him. Suppose that's why I haven't bothered to ask him: what happened?



When i'm at peace with my self, I feel that all is well. Even when things are not making sense at that time. The only reason i'm sharing this with you, is to show you that such things are normal. When someone disapears on you without a reason, when all was going well the last time you've checked.

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Posted : 9 Jun, 2013 05:03 PM

Dear sister,



Why would a good Christian man want to call you - his woman when you haven't had a relationship yet. That is odd. If something is out of the ordinary then be extra careful.



If he does contact you. Go to a public place where there's lots of people. That dude gives off an odd vibe. Just saying.



God bless

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Posted : 15 Jun, 2013 07:07 PM

I think you did the right thing. It would have obviously come up with this woman at sometime and it's probably good that you see this soon. Personally, I went to a Christian College and we were instructed that the KJV is actually one of the least accurate versions because it was translated twice, first into Latin and then into English. So, I actually never read the KJV! And if that's a huge deal for someone, then I am not their girl! ;)

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Posted : 16 Jun, 2013 03:34 PM

Everyone gets told different things about this Bible or that Bible, this religion or that religion. If someone has a preference for KJV there is nothing wrong with that. It is their preference. If someone else wants a Baptist, again their choice. It is not a big deal. Its someones choice.

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