1. I'll read long profiles, but long profiles with no paragraph breaks barely get skimmed. Break things up so that it's easier to read. Also, skip out on any sort of all-caps writing. Again, you want to make the information easier to digest. As far as what to include, you have to walk the line between giving us an interesting snapshot of who you are and writing too much. Don't eliminate all the mystery!
2. Pictures of you! Have some variety though. No one wants to see 4 of the exact same picture of you that have just been photoshopped, or all myspace angles, etc. Go with a good close up of your face and then a couple different full body shots of you in different situations. And make sure you smile!
3. Yes. I don't require a PhD, but I would like a girl to have some sort of post-high school education.
4. No.
5. I don't think premarital sex has a place in a Christian dating relationship.
1.Do you really read long profiles? Or do you read profiles at all?
I prefer medium length profiles. Long profiles are just unnecessarily so.
2. What kind of pictures get your attention the most?
Sun. Fun. Whimsical. Smiling. Outdoors. There's also something to be said for pictures that are more reserved. Respect is attractive. If not sure- err on the side of that. Not smiling though is a turn-off. Dresses are nice, but so are pink sweats. Comfort is attractive too.
3. Do you care about women' level of education?
The only time education is a factor for me is when it's an advanced degree like a Master's or Ph.d. There just doesn't seem to be much we have in common. I base a person's education on the decisions they make rather than the degrees they have.
4. Do you want to know about her ex?
If you're not over your ex, get over him and then get back to me.
5. As Christians, are you planning to have sex before marriage?
No. I want to get to love and know a person for who she is. Sex just is not part of the equation and not something I value more than getting to know and love her for her and experience life and have adventures together.
1.Do you really read long profiles? Or do you read profiles at all?
I usually read medium to long GOOD profiles. I have a secret on how to read lone ones. I do quick read method.
2. What kind of pictures get your attention the most?
Nice pictures and it has to be true pictures. NOT studio pictures! Or too perfect ones. No sexy pictures. No "what is she doing with her lips?" She needs to smile! Not that stupid tight lipped. No soft "sex sells" allowed. No fakes.. No photoshopped photographs! I only want true webcam photographs, true photographs they may hang out with family or friends or both.
3. Do you care about women' level of education?
I prefer she has been high school graduated. I am anti-college as matter of fact. So, no more than vocational training is allowed.
4. Do you want to know about her ex?
NO way! it brings jealousy. I prefer that innocent of her.
5. As Christians, are you planning to have sex before marriage?
The Bible did not exactly say that but if you really really love someone and intent to wed, go ahead. I know this is controversal but look at Genesis chap 24 and the story about Ruth and Boaz. Did the two couples get married with a priest present? I guess not! I know it is OT but look at this way.. the Bible did say if a man findeth a wife is a good thing (prov. 18:22. I am telling you, when you know it, you are already married. You are married in your heart. The wedding thingy that the government want is for legal purposes. Churches do have weddings of course.. its also the church wants you to marry legally as well before church family.
Making love is when you really get married. Not the wedding thingy.
I'm reading this going WOAH! I have never seen so many guys say no to sex before marriage. It makes me feel hopefully that my "other" is truely out there somewhere feeling the same way I do about waiting. Yay :):yay: lol!
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