Author	Thread: Good Job
musician47 View Profile History	Good Job Posted : 24 Feb, 2019 08:22 AM I want to thank the lady from the Philippines for doing a good job of carrying my heart to the stars since October, then tossing me in the trash. Things went well, or so I was led to believe. She was declaring "love" for me, telling me she had prayed with tears dripping on the floor that I would be her new life mate, and I was stupid enough to believe it. She said she was staying up until 2am to write me, (her time), and according to my time, that was about right. She wanted me to share about us with my friends. There I was, buying all of this, plastering her picture all over my Facebook page, while all the time friends were trying to warn me of the reality of what these people really want from that country. I got angry at well meaning friends trying to save me from heartbreak, but would I listen? Of course not, I was feeling love for this woman. We were dripping endearing words off of each other, "my princess", "my prince", I even went to the trouble to use the Google translator to try to type a few words to her in her native language. That went over pretty well. From the top, I told her I was not rich, and was struggling like everyone else in this country, and I did have a few health problems. Oh, that didn't matter. That was ok. From October until this past Wednesday, I day dreamed of somehow, God working a miracle that she really would be able to come to this country, learn our language and us be married. Stupid, foolish daydreams. At first, she was with me on leaving it all in God's hands as to whether or not we met or would exchange vows. But last Wednesday, after a normal start of exchange of emails, she changed on a dime. It was the worst "Jekyl to Hyde" thing I had ever witnessed! She hit me with "it was MY responsibility for her coming to this country." It was no longer "leaving everything in God's hands." She warned me sternly about putting her pictures on Facebook, in a threatening manner. It was suddenly no longer ok to show her picture to anyone until after we might be married. For four months, she had carried my heart to the moon. She then started ranting about my not knowing she wore glasses, and how "bad" her eyes were, something never mentioned in 100's of on site messages or off site emails. She then started hinting that she needed money to buy glasses. She later said she was "sorry", I guess, for jumping on me about the other. But she ended it by saying words to the effect that she was going to have to look after herself, that she needed to love and take care of herself, and that no one could take care of her. She has family there, and I assume living with them. She was very vague about what she did. At first, she was a missionary, then she later gave some kind of description of it wasn't exactly that, or that at ALL. Very fuzzy information. She told me to be strong and be happy always. How, when she was dumping me?! "Maybe I need to take some rest" she said, referring to herself. "Maybe I need one week of my rest". The line "Be careful and take care" told me. It was over. Her final words were "God bless, I love you too!" I doubt I will ever hear from her again. I might, but probably will not She carried my heart on a journey not like since I had my precious wife who went to the Lord in 2009. I had not felt love like that since I had my wife. Yes, it hurt. I cried Saturday until I am half sick today with sinus problems. What always puzzled me was why she could only write to me in the wee hours, in her time zone. It was never before 1 or 2am in the morning, her time. That should have been a red flag. What brought tears to my eyes was the very anointed prayer she typed to me, praying to God for my health to improve, and how she had six prayers answered about her first husband who had died, a home, etc. Her seventh prayer was for me to become her life mate. That prayer was so beautiful, I cried. I wouldn't listen to my dear friends who are like family to me on Facebook. I had to keep swallowing it all, hook line and sinker. They tried to warn me that all those women want over there is a ticket to America. One friend told me about a man who married a Filipino. After she had her feet on the ground, and used him to get to America, she dumped him like yesterday's chopped liver! Yes, I'm the same one who, months or a year ago had posted here about Filipino women. One of them posted to me and was not happy with what I had said. I know now, I was only telling it like it is. All those women want is a ticket to what they think is a better way of life here. They are good with words of endearment, use heart snagging words and methods, better than any used car salesman could ever come up with. I still have tears even now, but I also thank God it got no further than it did. She "lost it", be it bipolar issues or what. I feel now the "love" she declared for me even saying she loved me so very much, was in reality, her love of the thought of coming here and taking my money, which I don't have a lot of. This is long, and I apologize for that, but I had to get this out to warn other men, and possibly other women, as there could be Filipino men doing this, I don't know, watch your heart! Ask God to reveal to you what is happening. I have a lonely gullible heart and allowed myself to be taken in. As suspected, she is probably taking this week off to write other men, or maybe even has one there who traveled from the US to see her. There is no way of knowing. There were tons of red flags and blanks never filled in. I felt love for her, and paid all of that no mind. I should have. All I can say at this point, as I hold my shattered heart, in pieces, in my hands are "Never again!" Lesson learned and learned well, from a great con artist. Post Reply
musician47 View Profile History	Good Job Posted : 25 Feb, 2019 09:17 AM Going by Youtube, this scamming thing by Filipino women is just as common as a sunny day. I was watching a video made by a poor guy who got scammed by a Filipino woman, but the background noise was so bad, I couldn't understand what he was saying. This is of epidemic proportion, looks like, and is truly sad and heartbreaking, especially when they act like Christians, and talk the talk. Walking the walk is what counts. Post Reply
View Profile History	Good Job Posted : 25 Feb, 2019 11:13 AM Sad. Really bad to take advantage of s'mone...only those who walk the talk are worth though scarce! Tread carefully, lesson learned. Post Reply
musician47 View Profile History	Good Job Posted : 25 Feb, 2019 11:26 AM That says it. Post Reply
View Profile History	Good Job Posted : 25 Feb, 2019 02:55 PM You seem to have a personal vendetta on people from the Philippines. All I've read from you are how you have your heart broken, stay away from Filipinos, that you're deleting your account, that you already found the perfect woman in the person of your deceased wife and yet you're still here. That was since OCTOBER 2018. And now you want us to believe that you have a relationship with a Filipino woman since OCTOBER 2018 until LAST WEDNESDAY? Stop pulling our leg. Move on with life. Stop the negativity. I've got news for you. It happens to all of us. And the scammers and the users? They're from all around the world and not just from one country. Post Reply
musician47 View Profile History	Good Job Posted : 25 Feb, 2019 04:46 PM Calling me a liar helps you, does it? I posted only what happened. Your kind give women a bad reputation. Have you ever heard of freedom of speech? Maybe you should read about that. This forum page invites either success stories or bad endings. I have as much right to post here as anyone. If you have a problem with me, contact admin. I don't believe they will find anything I'm doing in violation of site rules. True there are scammers from around the world, but the highest concentration per capita seems to be the Philippines. I didn't do that. I can't help where they live. I just hope you can fool a man as to how "nice" you are. You sure left your closet door open on this one for some skeletons to fall out. I've never seen anyone just out and call me a liar, but then I hadn't been attacked by YOU yet. I'll be reporting your attack to admin, by the way. All my friends on Facebook saw what happened, so call them liars also. They might not be as tolerant of you. I'm glad you are stalking me and keeping a file on every thing I say here. There are laws against cyber stalking as well. I may just look into that as well, after I report you. Have a nice evening. Post Reply
musician47 View Profile History	Good Job Posted : 25 Feb, 2019 04:53 PM I also do not have a personal vendetta against anyone from the Philippines. Yet another false accusation by you. I have met very nice people from that country, both men and women on the internet. Two of my dearest friends on Facebook, the husband is a Filipino and they are both fine Christians who don't go around calling people liars or accusing them of things as you do. Post Reply
View Profile History	Good Job Posted : 25 Feb, 2019 05:53 PM Sure, there's freedom of speech that's why I'm giving you a piece of my mind. Only a stupid person would jump into a relationship with the same race that he's just warned others against on the same timeframe. I know you're a nice person and your heart was broken. I had mine broken too but I don't bad mouth the whole race just because I've had had some bad experiences with a certain race. I am a nice woman but if someone maligns me, my family, or my race for that matter, I will not just stand back and watch people trample on them. I fight for what or who I love and believe in. Post Reply
View Profile History	Good Job Posted : 26 Feb, 2019 03:57 AM I owe you an apology. Sorry for adding insult to injury. Like a pressure cooker I just blew up after reading AGAIN your accusations of Filipinos just wanting a free ride for that American dream and being scammers. I guess you're just that desperately lonely to jump from one relationship to another simultaneously. It can make us do stupid things. But it doesn't give you a license to insult other people. I still believe in the goodness of men or women despite our shortcomings. Not one of us is perfect but we all strive to be holy as Christians in our own way. Good luck in your search for happiness and God bless. Just so you know, I have my own fair share of maniacs, exhibitionists, psychos, catfish and scammers. But I don't generalize people as bad. We just have to be careful and protect ourselves. Learn to differentiate between good and evil. ✌ Post Reply
musician47 View Profile History	Good Job Posted : 26 Feb, 2019 07:20 AM Just a short note. I have a lot to do today. I am not jumping from one relationship to another. All I did was tell the lady she reminded me of my wife, in appearance, then she took off like a rocket from there. I have a lot to do today, and don't have time for a "back and forth" mind game or drama. I also am not condemning Filipino women. Got that wrong. I hadn't posted here in a long time, and was still hurting. I cried all afternoon Saturday from how that woman did me, but I did not think it was her nationality. I've got hurt by American women. Anyway, I did what CDFF says we can do, posted my disaster, but after your comments, never again. The atmosphere here isn't overly friendly, though not openly hostile. I will just keep things to myself. Post Reply
musician47 View Profile History	Good Job Posted : 26 Feb, 2019 07:20 AM And apology accepted. Thank you! Post Reply

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