* You make your own friends here, you chose fellows of your kind (or you decide which group you belong to, since when a certain person posts something, its always obvious who is most likely to write back)
* People here are always up for opposition, they can miss every good thing on your post and only 'qoate' words that will satisfy their desire to crush, disrespect and cause tension if possible. They find pleasure in doing that
* What I Iove most about those always crushing others, is that they fight among them selves from time to time. Which confirms a lot about them.
* Be specific of few fellows you'd rather interact with... Qoate them by names if possible, that draws a thin line and keeps the conversation healthy and pleasant for even innocent members who are only here to learn even when not partaking in the forum. (was sent an inbox message by a new fellow appreciating my conversations with Teach. Was very humbled and reminded that we're touching peoples lives one way or the other)
* We're 'Christians' here with no love for one onother
* When viewing people's profiles its disappointing after you've red what they've written in the forum, seeing their age. It confirms something about them, while new questions are aroused. Questions you won't bother to ask since not here for people's profiles, but only viewed out of amazement or disappointment.
* Only few pleasant members here.... And believe me dear, those few are really worth teaming up with. You'll love them for real and stay as a member just so you keep communicating and learning from them.
* This site has numerous possible 'scammers' registered with 2or3 different names not posting their real pics.
I did check with the site admins, anyone else can as well. People who aren't single are welcome to stay and participate in the forums, as long as they aren't being inappropriate. People with successful experiences in online dating are valuable to have around on a dating site.
Im single, I dont have pics, and I only come here to read (and occasionally) respond to the forums.
1. Im single because I refuse to "settle"...aka, get married just for the sake of getting married.
2. I dont have pics because Ive had them lifted, and after getting into an argument with a deviant, had them spread all over the internet on disgusting "dating" websites.
3. I only come here for the forums because I have lost all hope of finding the women God wants to be my wife on here. Of the 4 or 5 women here that "seemed" to be what Im looking for, all of them turned out to be...wrong. Of those, only two were actually what most people would describe as "pretty".
1. Some are not even reading my profile, in the first I specify I do not want any winks if they are not interested in emailing me yet I get the isolated winks all the time.
2. I see many Philippines women with American men twice their age in the testimonial section. I don't want to judge but it seems many are here to get out of their countries. In fact I'm seeing quite a lot of American men quitting American women all together and dating the exotics...
3. Men play games all the time, men email me very interested calling beautiful and wanting to know more then when I nicely reply to their questions and ask some more, POOF, no reply at all! If you want perfection there's always a blow up doll waiting for you dear...
Yareis. About #2. Most of the Filipinas I know would love it if they marriad a foreigner and he moved to the Philippines. In fact, they may ever prefer that to moving to the US. Why? Because not only does it take about a year to get a spousal visa to come here, but the cost of living is much, much, much less than here. Also, when Filipinas say they are family oriented, they dont just mean they want to have children. To them, their parents and siblings are their world.
The reason you see many American men "quitting" American women, is that American women seem to hate men. One of my relatives and a couple of my friends married Filipinas. One said to me that he "finally had enough" of the "I am woman, hear me roar" types. Another said that pretty much every woman he had dated in the last few years, before he went to the Philippines, had wanted to "wear the pants" in their relationship.
Most men want a strong woman, but they dont want a woman who acts like a man. As for the age difference, thats mainly a western thing. In many developing countries, it isnt uncommon to see 15-20 or ever 30 year age differences in marriages. It wasnt that uncommon in the US until the 20th century. In fact, one famous person married a much younger woman. Sam Houston, who was 47, married Margaret Moffette Lea, 21 yrs old, in 1840. They were married for 23 years until his death and they had eight children.
