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ChristianArtsy

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Posted : 19 Jun, 2013 06:01 AM

RE: My prior Posting "Ask A Guy" What are you expecting



Every Issue From Your List Appllies to this man who has been on this site he calls home, and according to him for years.



This Married Man, Michael, over the past few hours edited his profile. His profile solicited "Help" to "young ladies". He says he's married, when he�s outted at least. His profile says he's single. I've asked him to not communicate with me, course to no avail, in his mind he thinks he�s here to make every woman acceptable to God, and then with his (Michael's) help the crazy female can then be a true joy to her husband. I am not here to talk to married men. He shows time and again, he has NO respect for women or the word of God for that matter. How many young, misleadable women is this guy in communication with? This is dangerous, this man twists the word of God to fulfill what he has as a life and apparently everyone knows about it. Will/were you responsible if/when something happens?

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Posted : 19 Jun, 2013 06:37 AM

Dearest Sister,



IMHO, you are being too harsh on Brother Michael. I have followed his posts for quite a while now and whether you like his advice or not, he is a sincere guy.



From what I have gleaned of him through his posts/responses, he is betrothed but not yet married.



There is no harm in fellowship with other believers here, engaged or not. Please rethink your judgment of him.



Blessings!

ChristianArtsy

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Posted : 19 Jun, 2013 07:24 AM

Received my sister, but this is a Christian's Singles sight, "Michael" posts untruths on his profile "single" and well until this morning specifically invites "YOUNG LADIES" "IN NEED" of help to contact him. sure its in his edit history, and why did he delete after my post.... I'm not out to bash him, but if I wanted to "talk" to a married man, as a single woman, I'd go on a SECULAR site where one should expect that type of environment. If I want to talk to a married man on dating, well, church, family, GOD. Ever wonder what his wife thinks... If he feels he HAS to be here, then something is wrong, that shouldn't be supported.

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Posted : 19 Jun, 2013 07:40 AM

My understanding of his situation is that he is betrothed/engaged, but not yet married.



If you believe he should not be on CDFF, please address your comments to the Administration by clicking on the "Contact Us" button on the top right of your screen.



Blessings on your search, dear one.



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Posted : 19 Jun, 2013 07:55 PM

Believe it or not. I invited her to help her with her relationship like she asked. She is young enough to be my daughter. My daughter who i love dearly and love those here including you dear sister. Is not the greatest command to love God and love others?



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Posted : 19 Jun, 2013 08:34 PM

Why CA, Is expressing fatherly love to a young woman ill in your eyes?

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Posted : 19 Jun, 2013 11:45 PM

My dear sister if i am not wrong Michael says he is engaged but not married and i think he never hides that at all.

I have been following Michael's posts and like them so much i haven't found anything offensive.If you ask for help and he offers to help,is there anything wrong with that?

I have learnt so much from his posts and i always look forward to reading from him.

This is a christian dating site,and even as we search for life partners we make friends on the way.Does it mean if i got my life partner i do away with my friends i have met here?And if i like to learn and share with others on this chat forum,anything wrong with that whether married or not?And not hiding it from other readers?

Lets not be so judgmental and accusing.



God bless you sister.



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Posted : 20 Jun, 2013 04:08 AM

Thankyou ladies for your respect but to God be the glory for what he has done. I used to be such a manipulator and scoundral. God has revealed the light and taught this poor excuse of a man how to love.

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Posted : 20 Jun, 2013 04:35 AM

ChristianArstsy



I'm not arguing the constant changes that you see on Letthismind2's profile,

The only thing I wanna say is that, weither he is married or not, its still up to him to partake in this site, since its a free site for all who are interested. How the wife takes it, its completely between the two of them. He's been around for a while now, he has made friends & he's imput counts on some of us.



Onother thing,

He always mentions he's fianc�e, that one has been made clear to all of us,



Maybe you need to back up your story dear (I mean well in my last sentance, take no offense please)

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Posted : 20 Jun, 2013 05:20 AM

The site has clear options to look only for friends or penpals or worship partners, which directly implies it's not only for dating. Those are some pretty serious accusations you're throwing around there. I wouldn't go so far as to say LTM is always sensitive about the way he promotes his views sometimes, but I don't think we should be assuming his motives either, and it's up to you to let whatever offends you to impact your attitude. I've been here awhile as well, and I'd say he's sincere, I haven't seen him promoting anything "dangerous".



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Posted : 20 Jun, 2013 12:07 PM

Well I can not let a Christian sister stand alone against such a scandal.



So I went and looked at the heading of this website, and below here it is copy and paste :



"Welcome to Christian Dating For Free, The #1 Free Christian Dating Service for Christian Singles."







So a married man or engaged man or a liar (since he has made contradictory claims) would surely matter to any sincere Christian Lady.



And one would expect it to be objectionable to any Christian Man who actually tries to live up to that name.



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