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Posted : 16 Sep, 2012 12:27 PM

In the last few weeks I had what I thought was Nice guys to contact me with really nice messages. A few days later the one was banned. Then the second man banned then now

they are are banned. :excited: They had great profiles and I answered all the messages. I guess they were Not such

Nice guys. :laugh:

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Posted : 16 Sep, 2012 01:35 PM

The real nice guys, such as myself, are the ones who never get responses from messages. Our profiles arent that great and some of us dont post pictures.



The guys with perfect profile and great pictures are usually fake.



The real nice guys do finish last in the real world. Oh well, such is life.

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Posted : 16 Sep, 2012 04:47 PM

Well, I usually answer all messages whether I like the man or not, I know how to send a reply.lol

On these Christian sites you would think most would do that but unfortunately not. And you are so right many nice profiles are Fake.

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Posted : 17 Sep, 2012 11:30 AM

Ive sent out about a dozen messages so far. No replies.

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Posted : 17 Sep, 2012 09:41 PM

i had bad experience also looking for nice guy here it start with the chat then send me some message.. he even post nice and good picture but now his picture was deleted and now not active here in this dating network...

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Posted : 17 Sep, 2012 09:54 PM

I like Apostelle and ExceedingJoy very much:glow:

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Posted : 9 Oct, 2012 07:12 PM

It would appear to me that a woman or a man who refuses to post a profile while actively seeking a partner on a Christian date site could be hiding something and anyone who see's that as a red flag would seem logical in doing so. Even more so if the profile lacks much information and a photo. Anyone can claim to be a "nice guy" or nice woman but if on a DATING site yet refusing to post photos and writing much in their profile, that would appear to indicate some serious issues.



God blessed us with the ability to COMMUNICATE. Communication is a huge key to building healthy, functioning relationships. Someone who fails to communicate from the start by not having much in their profile seems to indicate an inability to communicate or a real laziness at which they intend to seek a partner which generally translates to the same type of inattention to detail, inconsiderateness, laziness of thought and even arrogance on full display.

We are to be Christian ADULTS.....we should demonstrate the intelligence God gave us and utilize the blessing of the skill of communication.

Nice guy who doesn't communicate usually equals bad and failed relationship.

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Posted : 16 Oct, 2012 12:24 AM

i agree with you.:bow:

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Posted : 21 Oct, 2012 06:47 PM

I second the motion:winksmile: I agree with Cortezisboaz as well... very well said:applause:

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Posted : 27 Oct, 2012 08:55 AM

"The guys with perfect profile and great pictures are usually fake."



you sure about that?

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Posted : 26 Feb, 2013 05:14 AM

I have to believe that the majority of guys on this site are decent, Christian men. That said, after reading a number of posts (cause you can�t do anything but read in the forums for the first 3 days of your membership), I get the sense that there are at least a few gentlemen whose motives are suspect. I won�t name names as it is not my place to judge. Can�t say that I blame the ladies at all for becoming suspicious of the guys & always hope that the ladies put their personal safety first. Guess all I can ask is that the ladies understand that we�re not all scammers or posers.

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