Intimacy and Love Making

Posted : 27 Mar, 2011 02:07 PM

Do you think that it is important for potential spouses to talk in depth about Intimacy and Love Making in order to learn what each partner needs and expects in a relationship? It just seems like if a couple is going to get married and sleep together for a lifetime that they should at least discuss this topic first before they get married to determine if they are compatible and whether their needs and drive is the same and compatible. I see so many divorces in good christian couples and I realize that they never really discussed this subject before marriage. Then they fear discussing it after marriage and the bedroom becomes a place of great tension which leads to divorce in the long run. I think it's ok to discuss the subject in advance.



You might get slapped in the face a few times as the result but you will then learn that the person that slapped you wasn't really for you in the first place.



It just seems like a shame to go through the marriage process and the wedding only to find out you are not comfortable with each other afterwords and become miserable in a mismatched marriage, which could lead to divorce or an unhappy marriage.



What are your thoughts on this?

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