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sisygirl

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Had I known then what I know now....
Posted : 21 Jun, 2013 03:48 AM

Our daily experiences teaches new lessons. What is your "had I known then what I know now, would have made... (anyting that you would have changed back then) differently"



Mine is....

Forgiveness



Had I known then that when forgiving someone, i'm actually setting my self free from chains of holding & nourishing gragdes, which hindered my progress & break through,



Would have forgiven ages ago.



Please share yours....

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Posted : 21 Jun, 2013 04:02 AM

Praise God for your learning forgiveness and the freedom that comes with it. Isnt it wounderfully delicious? Haha



Wow so many things for me but the one i wish i could go back and do all together differently is my attitude toward women.



I have left a small wake of hurt and violated hearts of women. Knowing this today and the dysfunctional mind i had toward them as objects was a undoing of mine in repentence.



Heather, my previous wife and Stacy my previous girlfriend have been hurt very deeply by me because I wasnt yet a man.



I wish I could go back and have a father example that would teach me how to honor women and cherish every womans beauty in a healthy manner. To see the inner beauty and love that rather than look lustfully on the flesh of a woman as a object.



One day I will have a boy and I will do just that.

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Posted : 21 Jun, 2013 05:32 AM

Letthismind2



Thank God for Jesus Christ our Lord & savor, life becomes a brand new adventure when Christ comes forth, I also have a lot of things that were transformed for the better since I was born again.



May God meet your every need including the son that you desire to have one day.



Stay blessed!

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Lukia^

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Posted : 21 Jun, 2013 06:36 AM

This is a very good topic.

Had i known then what i know now i would have treated my ex in a different way.

I would have appreciated love,loved him back,forgiven him sincerely when he made mistakes,submitted to him.

My ex-husband was loving,very responsible.I admit i was too proud to see that.Always ready to say sorry whenever he made mistakes but to a very proud,silly woman who would never appreciate him.That was me.Most of the time i think of it and feel sorry.I have repented and with time God in His mercies has changed me from inside.



Had i known what i know now,life would be very sweet with the man that i loved and who loved me sincerely.

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Posted : 21 Jun, 2013 08:14 AM

Lukia

Believe me dear you're a better person now from what you were before that experience, had to go through that & learn what you now know that you didn't back then,



You'll make a great wife in future to come.

You have my support!

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Posted : 21 Jun, 2013 08:59 AM

I would have tried to balance love and responsibility more in my dealings with other people. I found out the hard way that sometimes it's possible to help too much and cause more problems for myself and other people by showing them kindness/patience/charity. Sometimes people need to feel the consequences of their actions in order to wake them up.



:peace::peace:

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sisygirl

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Posted : 22 Jun, 2013 02:02 AM

Donthitthatmark



Its harder living a balanced life, at times you do things with good intentions only to find out that the outcome hits back at you.

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Posted : 22 Jun, 2013 06:55 PM

All good honest responses. Praise God for you my family of Christ and the humility our Gid has taught us.

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Posted : 22 Jun, 2013 06:57 PM

God...........................

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