Is love an Emotion or a Choice? I keep waiting for a sign that a woman is right for me. Chosen from God. Or Chosen by God. But I never seem to get that sign. So I sometimes think that love is not really an emotional thing and that God won't determine who I am to marry. It seems like choosing a spouse is more a function of lining up all the things about that person that you have in common and then making a conscious decision to love that person regardless of the circumstances. Is this right? How am I to be sure about who is the right person for me and how will I Know when I have found the right one?