Message: Is it ok for people who are in a relationship to stay on the website and participate in the forums? If so, would it be possible to add an option to our profiles to indicate that we're no longer single?
Thanks!
:stop:Admin Response:
Hello Mark,
CDFF is for both relationship and fellowship, so it is ok for committed members to participate and stay in touch with friends. We appreciate your suggestion and will consider implementing it as we continue improving the CDFF website. In the meantime, members generally write on their profiles that they are commited, in the �About Me� section.
Please let us know if we can be of further assistance.
I'm simply stating my observations and the listed forum rules.
"Welcome to the Christian Dating For Free Forums!
We hope that you enjoy meeting and engaging in stimulating discussions with other Christian Dating For Free members. We want you to have a lot of fun with this area and even possibly learn a thing or two!
Obscenity, Inappropriate Language or Insults WILL NOT BE TOLERATED HERE. If you are found to be in violation of these terms, your profile will be deleted and you will be banned from the site. Also, do NOT promote your website or product here- links are prohibited.
Sorry for the stern message but this is very important. Now have a blast!"
You're in violation of several of those and more, but please don't take my word for it. If you want to find out, submit an abuse report on this thread and see if the admins notice, maybe plug your website a few more times first. If you'd want, I can submit the report for you, but I won't do it unless you ask me to. I'm actually not a coward who tries to silence his accusers, I'm so entirely NOT afraid of you in any way, it's pretty amazing.
I say that I posted that last one too quickly as I do need to explain things better.
When I called you a coward then surely I do not mean afraid of me myself.
Surely you are very safe behind a computer screen and you are anonymous and in a different State, so that surely you are not afraid of me, as apparently you show your self quite bold when there is no danger at all - as in here.
What I mean be you all being cowards is that you do not have the courage to face up to the truth, and that you cower behind lies, and you act big when you are being cheap and low.
Me calling you as a coward is not a judgement against your feelings - no, it is a judgement and a condemnation against your deficient character.
I thought the focus of the LTM fan club�s venom/pettiness and hate if it must exist was/should have been directed at me.
Sandman spoke up, as a Man of God, as a Leader. Frankly, around here, that�s kind of nice to see. At any rate, I started this: there I go thinking God gave me a mind and heart to be used for HIS purpose, in this case, truth over lies and garbage. I do realize now that a lot of you have no idea of my meaning, I am MORE THAN GOOD to be the bullseye of whatever it is you feel you need to gather and throw.
Do you just for a moment think when you�re posting this hate or talking about us among yourselves; �this is childish, there must be something of more value I can be doing with my time, I�m being petty, this is not Christ like, this is vindictive, I�m being hostile, this is ugly�. HAVE YOU WONDERED WHY YOU�RE DOING IT.. �Christians�
Maybe some of us haven�t found our mate because we need to grow up first, in the Lord!
If everyone�s entitled to their opinion, welcomed to lie about their relational status based on how they feel at the time, and counsel on issues that even true churches under the circumstance here wouldn't allow, than EVERYONE should be able to speak their mind.. no? That is what I get from the posted �administrator�s messages�..
I am confident all things will come to light, and hopefully some here will truly come to the Lord, but at the same time I am alerted to fakery (is that a word), just cannot believe everything you read round here, well, think that's been covered, and some eyes do see.
If you don�t mind, I�d like to note a scripture on THIS Christian site: 2 Timothy 4:2-5, and thank you Sandman and other women and men of God who shall remain nameless...
Today is a blessing, enjoy it, it's the 4th of July :applause:
Believe me or not the only time I think about this is when I am reading these posts and I know the same for the others as well. We are healthy individuals with healthy minds.
Maybe you sit around obsessing over this but I do not. The only one with power over my life is my Lord and my lady. My Lord because He is Lord and my lady because i give power to her.
Other than that I love you all but you all have no athority over my mind and heart except that I desire you to live a life in Gods love along with me.
Us here Dkj255, Mark, Jude and I. Trying to love you and sand.
Its like the elephant gift giving on christmas. You know where everyone brings a gift and you choose names. The first name opens the gift and they then decide the value of the gift in comparrison to the unopened wrappers.
They have to decide if what they have is the most vaulable or is their a more valuable gift hidden in the pile of gifts.
That is the beauty of the gift of Gods love. When you give the gift away one always ends up with greater love in return. Those who sit holding onto their porcline elephant watch gift after gift opened of greater value and worth. They become even more jaded and stuburn holding onto their trophy.
Never believing they too can be one who will reciece a better gift then they already posess. This is the truth behind what jesus taught about if you loose your life you will find it. Death brings life. Death to self and our imposing our selves as god in our own lives and others brings death.
I dont obsess over things because I have ceased to think for my self. I have surrendered my mind over to God and He owns it. He gives my mind peace and serenity. Whenever I begin to think for my self I really feel it because i become crazy again.
I used to obsess over everything and everyone. I used to think constantly. This is a good indicator that we are seeking to be in power over our own lives and be our own gods.
If anyone here does this sort of obsessing turn you minds to scripture first and dwell on a passage even a small portion of scripture. I love dwelling on a couple or just one word like ( but) or ( because) or ( if you knew). Finding the love of God and the source of life in repenting for our inward thought process and turning our thoughts toward God.
Giving our minds to God in trust of Him and our actions following after. The problem is people in the church try giving actions without the mind motive or heart motive. The motive of respondiing to God in love by giving of ones self to Him and others freely. We tend to give trying to earn acceptance.
This is sad because acceptance is already there it only needs to be received with joy.
