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DontHitThatMark

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Posted : 21 Jun, 2013 12:15 PM

User Name: DontHitThatMark



This is regarding: General Question



Message: Is it ok for people who are in a relationship to stay on the website and participate in the forums? If so, would it be possible to add an option to our profiles to indicate that we're no longer single?



Thanks!





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Hello Mark,



CDFF is for both relationship and fellowship, so it is ok for committed members to participate and stay in touch with friends. We appreciate your suggestion and will consider implementing it as we continue improving the CDFF website. In the meantime, members generally write on their profiles that they are commited, in the �About Me� section.



Please let us know if we can be of further assistance.



God bless,



CDFF



www.ChristianDatingForFree.com

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Posted : 1 Jul, 2013 09:48 AM

Actually, I don't think I will. I'd hate to give you more ridiculous ammunition to cry about on your "injustice blog". Feel free to show your fruits all over the forum. Stand up against this allegedly horrible website! Send all kinds of emails that will likely be ignored and/or giggled at! Enjoy your quest, but I have to say, it will likely result in forced disassociation from everyone and every institution that you think should care, because they surely won't.



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Posted : 1 Jul, 2013 04:07 PM

Mr James is just a bitter...angry...lonely Gent...so much so that one of the basics of his professed natural moral religon and belief appears to be non-exisitant here in the forums...



A Deist perspective ~ We show our appreciation to God by how we use the life we have been given. We show our appreciation for the value of life in others by how we treat them. Human nature is designed for living by love. Everyone knows that our Creator intends for us to live by love because failure to love is destructive to life, our own and others. We know this from our own perceptions, experiences, and thinking. This truth is the foundation of natural religion.



*** This is a purty good logical perspective on how to treat others...even those that do not believe as we do...even those that that fall short of the mark...GOD's blessings to Everyone...Shalom...xo

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Posted : 1 Jul, 2013 04:23 PM

Sand man, I just realise something today. I was guilty of abusing people especially women and the woman closest to me my wife.



I too was a victom of abuse and I learned from my father how to abuse people rather than love people. I believe you were abused as well friend.



It grieves me today knowing I have caused such harm to another human being.



The wounderful thing is that God got a hold of my life and began to retrain my heart and learn how to love. You call me a lier. This is your choice. You call me an abuser of women. Well you are right I am guilty of both.



I am guilty of being both a lier and a abuser until God brought me to repentence. You see without God I would still be such.



God has transformed this man to be a man who extends Love , grace and mercy and you are a benificiary of this because you havent been banned for your attacks toward me.



I know you dont want to be hurt by people because you have been hurt very mucha as a child and even an adult.



God loves you and we love you too Sandman.

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Posted : 2 Jul, 2013 06:25 AM

To GJ = Love does not ever include lies.

A person who says that they love and yet they keep on lying, then their claim to love is a lie too.

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Michael = There is no repentance when you maintain your lies.

Repentance really must include stopping the lies, and even making amends for the lies.

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Mark = I was the first to play it as funny, and so I repent of that, because it is not funny as it is a sad if not a really stupid pretense.



As if we are to pretend that the so-called "Admin" is some big important entity that is so far above us here that it does not know what goes on with our little forum here. (That is me using sarcasm - for those that can not see.)



So the "Admin" might be lost in deep prayer down in the holy monastery, and some one most notify it of any abuse. (That again is mocking sarcasm, FYI.)



You have created such a pack of lies here, that I can not understand such a mentality that would seek to fool people on such a scale.



It is still a joke indeed - but not a funny joke.



I see this more-so as an insult to Christianity, in that shallow Christians will play along with all sorts of ridiculous nonsense, and then wonder why Christianity looses respect.

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Posted : 2 Jul, 2013 10:02 AM

You might have it backwards. Christians that freak out about every sin, or every perceived heresy, with no attempts toward understanding or mercy, that is why Christians have lost respect. In Jesus' time, in the dark ages, and even now. It's the same attitude, it's the same error, and people are justified in losing respect for that kind of "Christianity". Straining out a gnat and swallowing a camel. Trying to clean other people's specks while they have a plank in their own eye.



:peace::peace:

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Posted : 2 Jul, 2013 10:05 AM

And no, the admins do not police every aspect of the site, read the forum rules. In every case since I've been here(going on 4 years), any abuse has had to be reported by the users of the forum. If you want to test it, submit an abuse report on yourself.:glow:



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Posted : 2 Jul, 2013 03:54 PM

To GJ = Love does not ever include lies.

A person who says that they love and yet they keep on lying, then their claim to love is a lie too.



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Yes!!!...I somewhat agree with you...People who continue to Lie after accepting Christ Jesus actually have not Accepted Him and have yet to Be Born Again..from above...



The Truth and a Lie can not Exisit in the same moment of time...it is Impossible...scientifictly...moralisticly...religiousticly...(Made up word ha :laugh: ha)...So...here are 2 questions for you...and anyone else here on the forums...



Are you a Lier ???



Do you Love ???



Just a Yes or No will do...no need to go beyond Yea or Neh to Justify the answer...xo

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Posted : 2 Jul, 2013 04:09 PM

Anybody else bored of this yet? :zzzz: Sandman has had enough attention all to himself and it's probably time we left him to it in favour of more productive dialogue elsewhere.

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Posted : 2 Jul, 2013 05:05 PM

Jesus said, Forgive them Father...For they know not what they do.....Isnt this statement all of us at some time or place?

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Posted : 3 Jul, 2013 06:40 AM

I am not a liar, and I do my best never to lie.



And I agree that we must forgive people who do wrong, but not when they stubbornly continue to do the wrongs.



Forgive past sins certainly - but not ongoing sinning.



And it is is NOT that anyone here does nor know what they are doing - because we all know exactly what we are doing here.



And the pretender "Mark" is now going to talk for the "Admin" = you guys are such cowards.

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