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Admin	how do you introduce your self Posted : 13 Dec, 2010 09:05 PM some men are so afraid of rejection. how do you talk to women and give it your all, and take the chance of getting turned down. i would like to know how to get passed all that. please give me your thoughts. Post Reply
View Profile History	how do you introduce your self Posted : 14 Dec, 2010 06:33 PM It IS hard. I imagine it is just as hard for a man as for a woman. I can only tell you what I do. I gulp, gather up my courage, pray, remember that I DO want a husband, and try again. It gets easier the more you do it --- but I have to always go through the process each time. I also allow myself some 'down' time if I received an especially hurtful (to me) turndown. And, I remember how hurtful it is to be turned down, and I always try my best to respond to each message or contact and be gentle and nice when turning someone down. (Do onto others as you would have them do onto you) HTH Post Reply
Joy2theW0rld View Profile History	how do you introduce your self Posted : 15 Dec, 2010 09:15 PM Good Question. At some point everyone needs to put themselves out there. You may find it comforting to know that you are not alone. Meeting someone is a win-win situation. You will either find someone that you are compatible with or you will get the equally beneficial knowledge that the person is not for you. Best of luck Post Reply
View Profile History	how do you introduce your self Posted : 19 Dec, 2010 01:29 AM Rejection is like cough,we all get it once in a while,but it always hurts and react differently to each but at each i remind myself to season my words with grace and behave like christ would.though on early days i could grieve for a while and not write back.but when one does not respond when i write or send a wink i thank God he has saved me from a deeper pain if the relationship started.imagine a spouse ,friend,relative,who doesnt answer you when you talk to them Post Reply