Author	Thread: How to pick the right one
pluc View Profile History	How to pick the right one Posted : 3 Mar, 2010 08:56 PM Just something I have learned about relationships. Tell me what you think. Pick the one that believes in you that listens to you that hears you that understands you that knows your dirt but still believes in you Pick the one that is emotionally attached to you therefore laughs when you laugh cries when you cry and serves your God gladly Pick the one that is strong where you are weak smart where you are ignorant and excels where you fail Pick the one that appreciates your strengths while looking at your weakness Pick the one that loves you!!! Pluc Post Reply
View Profile History	How to pick the right one Posted : 4 Mar, 2010 06:32 AM I choose the one that does all that! It would be excellent to find someone who encompasses all of those qualities. Someone who truly loves you would be willing to do all of that with God's help. That is why God is the foremost advisor for me when it comes to choosing a spouse and communication is key in letting your loved one know what you need at any given time. Because God is our creator and knows and is a reader of our hearts, we can ask Him to help us effectively minister to our spouse. Post Reply
View Profile History	How to pick the right one Posted : 4 Mar, 2010 09:15 AM ;) yeah Post Reply
Akuilfa View Profile History	How to pick the right one Posted : 4 Mar, 2010 07:34 PM It is so well said that I cannot add anything to that. I agree totally. I can't wait:bouncy: Post Reply
View Profile History	How to pick the right one Posted : 4 Mar, 2010 08:09 PM Akuilfa, I can't wait either! Post Reply
Prvbs31lady View Profile History	How to pick the right one Posted : 13 Mar, 2010 05:14 PM Thanks, Pluc for initiating this dialog. It is my obeservation that, this is an age of instant everything. Consequently, it is hard to find others willing to give life time to evolve and develop as God, our creator intended. Therefore, we all spend time in remediation of life's lessons. We all can benefit from slowing down and taking time to look, smell, taste, and savor this life experience. The trip to the promised land could have been a much shorter process if the Israelites would have kept willling and compliant hearts. To me relationships should be built the same way with God as a foundational cornerstone. What do you all think? Am I off target? Post Reply
pluc View Profile History	How to pick the right one Posted : 15 Mar, 2010 05:40 PM right on target my sister. As it relates to finding a spouse ot being found as you ladies do it, it is a real process. You have to find the balance between a friend and a significant other. Developing a friendship with someone you are interested in can be a challenge. Post Reply
gigibahama View Profile History	How to pick the right one Posted : 16 Mar, 2010 08:51 PM My take on it is that as a female who is sold out to God absolutely,I believe that it is not in the "pickin's" it is being led by the HOLY SPIRIT OF God, furthermore, as a believer, and female, the real role is to be BE FOUND not to PICK (HE....who findeth a wife findeth a good thing) it is positioning yourself in God so much so that he places you within the path of the RIGHT ONE in the right season for it is not in our own strength or might, but that God himself would obtain Glory in WHAT HE JOINS TOGETHER not us yoking ourselves to another; when we trust God totally, there is no shadow of turning, he illuminates and WHATSOEVER you want from God or desire to KNOW he will give you the desires of your heart, however at times it doesn't come because we are at times too busy seeking our own selfish needs and are not ready for God's Best..... in all things not wavering hold faith that our God will do as he says and give you the desires of your heart, talk to him how long has it been, we cannot have the true blessings without the Blessor, obtaining it thru serving our God in truth, listening to his voice and being a doer of his word, only then could we be prepared and really ready for Gods best? no offence intended - be blest with God's best!:prayingf: Post Reply
pluc View Profile History	How to pick the right one Posted : 17 Mar, 2010 09:53 PM No offence taken at all that was awesome. I agree with everything you said. Although I do believe that God gives us a choice on who we marry, as evidenced in Rebekkah chosing Issac even though she had not met Him. Post Reply
View Profile History	How to pick the right one Posted : 31 Mar, 2010 02:20 AM hi. i totally agree with you here however i do disagree with some here that are saying that God has given us a choice. what the person is really saying is his free will is giving himselve a choice. like you said lovely lady, selfishness is not the key to finding the ONE. but Gods choice is the ultimate one. the men think that they see several beautiful christian women and then there able to choose which one.....no wonder the divorce rates are so high! where are all those God fearing men? i think there far and few in between. lets keep searching. keep hopeing. keep praying till we get the answers from heaven to who he might be. :glow::excited: Post Reply
gigibahama View Profile History	How to pick the right one Posted : 11 Jan, 2011 10:23 AM well said pure in heart God bless your search :prayingf: I remain IHS Post Reply