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Hi and Goodbye
Posted : 27 Dec, 2009 04:10 PM

Lol this sites kinda weak, I mean lol no one talks to you, or even replys to a message and all i've asked for was some friendship so lol bye.

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Posted : 28 Dec, 2009 02:27 PM

Whoa....! Brother,



Don't jump yet!!! Let me see if I can talk you down from that rooftop. Pay no attention to that voice that is telling you to jump. I believe that we might be able to assist you in getting more responses.

One suggestion that I might offer would be to go back and take out any negative aspersions on yourself that you may have subconsciously placed in your profile ("so if u atleast don't like me pray for me :P"), get rid of that. Also, let these ladies know a little more about yourself....your dreams...your values...your feelings towards women -- do you think they should be seen not heard?...or do you feel they should play more of role in marital decisions? Things like that will give women a lot more knowledge into who you are and will influence their decision as whether to reply.

Your initial e-mail should be written just the same way as if you were approaching them at a party or function...tell them why you are standing in front of them...why you want to get to know them. Be sincere and genuine. And remember that not all of your e-mails will be answered (for whatever reason) and so do not take it as a personal affront to you, but rather as a good thing (saves you time and effort of finding out later that she is not for you).

Lastly, posting comments or starting a new thread here in the Forum will expose you and your thoughts to a lot of people, but you have to Genuinely want to post or it will show and expose you as a PosER not a Poster. And lastly-lastly, keep trying -- in the words of a Great Alien:



"Never Give Up....Never Surrender!"

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Posted : 28 Dec, 2009 04:31 PM

dear w.s. ,, first off id like to welcome you to the forums.. secondly i wish you the best if you do leave here..

thirdly will you do something for me ,just for my curiousity sake, will you tell us how long you were here and how many emails did you write? id appreciate it if you would as that would help us all to try to figure out a way to make folks stay here a little better in the future.. thanks

ole cattle

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