Author	Thread: Be warned ladies
KellyMarie4 View Profile History	Be warned ladies Posted : 23 Jun, 2017 05:46 PM I met a guy on here in May of 2015, talked for several months actually probably close to a year. He is a compulsive liar and that puts it mildly. First he told me that he was in the military which I believe he probably was at some point. Told me he was trying to shot an officer who was abusive to women and accidently shot his best friend while deployed. So I'm thinking who would lie about something like this so terrible. I just really fell for him because we connected instantly. I noticed things like he just wanted to message, didn't like to call me. He always had an excuse. Told me his ex-wife cheated on him so they got divorced but was still married until just recently. Said hey paid a 1000 a week in child support and had his kids every weekend. That was all a lie. Turns out he had,a warrant while we were talking for back child support and domestic violence. He would send me text messages randomly that we're fake arguments between him and a co-worker where he would be threatening the other party and then send me a message and say oh that wasn't meant for you, I guess in effort to look like a tough guy. I went to go visit him in Minnesota and he sent me a text and it was supposed to be to his roommate saying to go to the store and get me something nice because I was on my way there to visit. But then sends me a message and says oh that was for my roommate I guess I ruined the surprise, needless to say there was no surprise waiting when I got there and I never saw or met a roommate. He was very sweet and nice while I was there for the weekend but immediately started acting crazy again as soon as I left. He called me and told me he quit his job and needed money. He asked me for 250, I sent him 150, then he finds a reason to start a fight with me over nothing, I guess in effort to not give me my money back..and I know that was so stupid I just can't even explain what I was thinking I was really just trying to see the best in him and hope that the feelings that I had about him being dishonest were just me being paranoid. Later like weeks later, I randomly get a few pictures of him sent via text just out of the blue in the middle of the night, I messaged him back the next day and he acted like nothing ever happened, then told me he got a new job working for a ranch owner and was telling me about all these fights he got into with actual Indians and how he was in a tree armed just waiting for them to come oon the property. Something is mentally wrong with this guy and he just lives in this fake world and tells it to whoever will listen. Things just got crazier and crazier and eventually I looked into things. I found out that he still has his original job and never actually quit, the story about shooting his friend was a lie... And like I said had a warrant for his arrest. Oh and he told me he had this big Dodge truck that was brand new, conveniently right before I went to visit him he said he wrecked it .Turns out he never had that truck and actually didn't even have a license when I got there and I allowed him to drive me around everywhere in my car not knowing any of this at the time. There's so much more, I could go on all night, it was just ridiculous. I could really go on and on but the reason I'm writing this is because I decided to get back on here and see about giving it another shot and he popped up and I saw that he has 44 Women who have him on their favorites and I just wish that I could tell all of them to be very careful don't believe a word he says and don't send him any money, he portrays himself as this really good guy and upstanding citizen, that is the furthest from the truth. I really think he is a psychopath or has some other mental disorder. He lives in Minnesota and is hispanic be careful. Post Reply
Farhan222 View Profile History	Be warned ladies Posted : 4 Jul, 2017 12:39 PM I am really sorry to hear that you have to go through so much. its because of guys like these that people dont really trust one another. i know it much have been hard for you but i am really happy that you came out of his fake world and left him. As far you worrying about others girls you can report him and they will delete his profile. Have a good life and i hope you find a great person this time just be careful the world is materialist now days . Post Reply
KellyMarie4 View Profile History	Be warned ladies Posted : 5 Jul, 2017 11:01 PM Hey, thanks so much. I appreciate it. It was crazy! There has to be something mentally wrong with him, I really hope he gets help at some point and hopefully lives a normal life without lying to anyone else. I didn't know I could report him for those reasons since it didn't take place on the app. Not long after we meet on here, we started texting via our phones. I'll give it a try and see what happens, I just know he's doing this to all of those women all at the same time and none of them have any idea. Thank you again! Post Reply
Miranda32 View Profile History	Be warned ladies Posted : 6 Jul, 2017 04:48 PM That is just insane. Is he like one of those guys that just makes up stuff along the way or does he really believe the lies he tells? He's probably got so many lies going on with so many ladies on here. That's just terrible, on a Christian dating sight as well. Post Reply
Miranda32 View Profile History	Be warned ladies Posted : 6 Jul, 2017 05:09 PM He said he's hispanic and from Minnesota, OMG I might know who this is. I might be one of the girls he's been talking to Post Reply
KellyMarie4 View Profile History	Be warned ladies Posted : 6 Jul, 2017 05:16 PM You know that's a good question I'm not sure, sometimes I think he believes them. Some of it, he comes up with I think because he really wants to believe that that's his life. I still hear from him every now and then via text, I just kind of go along with it to see what else he'll say or how far he'll go with the lies. Last time I got a text he said he loved me and he'll talk to me tomorrow and every day after and then I never heard from him again LOL. It's just amusing to me at this point because he lies so bad he can't keep up with them all. In the beginning when I first started talking to him, I really liked him because we had very similar sense of humor, he portrayed himself as this really good upstanding guy, and I just knew it was too good to be true. I wasn't really positive about the lies even though I had a feeling until after I went to visit him. I noticed that there was definitely something up with him at that point and then after the visit things just got weirder and weirder, that's what I decided to really look into things with him, I did a Google search looked at public records and I found a lot of stuff. The whole purpose of my post is really just to warn the women on this page because I'm sure just like you said he's lying to so many of them all at the same time and that's not okay. It's not okay to play with people's emotions and hurt people because you're life is so pathetic that you feel the need to make up a fake life to get a reaction or attention from women. He's been on this site for a couple of years at least and is still currently active daily. I just got back on here like a few weeks ago just out of curiosity, although I only really log on if I'm board and I'm not saying there's nothing wrong with being active daily on this page, but I am saying if this is your hobby, to lie and portray yourself as someone else and never really follow through with anyone that is wrong and really really sad. Post Reply
KellyMarie4 View Profile History	Be warned ladies Posted : 6 Jul, 2017 05:27 PM Well if so, just be careful don't send him any money obviously. I think I gave enough detail in the Post to determine who it is. I don't want to put his name out there or anything. I just want people to be careful and if any of the stuff I wrote sounds familiar just be prepared for his Wild outrageous lies, for him to get crazy mad at you for absolutely no reason or to just quit talking to you for days and then pick up like nothing ever happened, and of course eventually he'll ask you for money after he feels like you've reached that point in your relationship. If you would like to message me I'll help you confirm whether it's him or not privately. Post Reply
Miranda32 View Profile History	Be warned ladies Posted : 6 Jul, 2017 05:32 PM Thank you so much I would like to do that. That is very nice of you. If it was me I would blast his name all over everything. I've only talked to him a couple of times but I was on here a few months ago and talk to him quite a bit and I don't think he remembers all the things he told me then. Probably because he's talking to so many different people and saying different things to everyone. I saw there's also a forum for bad experiences. Maybe you should put it in there also I'm kind of figuring you put it in this forum because new people may read this forum first but just an idea. I will message you and thank you again Post Reply
Miranda32 View Profile History	Be warned ladies Posted : 6 Jul, 2017 05:32 PM Thank you so much I would like to do that. That is very nice of you. If it was me I would blast his name all over everything. I've only talked to him a couple of times but I was on here a few months ago and talk to him quite a bit and I don't think he remembers all the things he told me then. Probably because he's talking to so many different people and saying different things to everyone. I saw there's also a forum for bad experiences. Maybe you should put it in there also I'm kind of figuring you put it in this forum because new people may read this forum first but just an idea. I will message you and thank you again Post Reply
KellyMarie4 View Profile History	Be warned ladies Posted : 6 Jul, 2017 05:44 PM yes that's exactly why I posted it in this group but I will add it to the other one. Hopefully some women will see it and call his bluff if they're being lied to but him Post Reply
View Profile History	Be warned ladies Posted : 7 Jul, 2017 01:34 AM Hi kelly,thank ypu for sharing to us your experienced bout this man. I'm trying to messaged you but doesnt work ( to ask his name so that i may be warned) due to your restriction in your profile that only those who live in US can message you. Anyway i would appreciate much of you will message me instead, and tell me the name of this man. Thanks. God bless you Post Reply

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