Author	Thread: What is the most important factor one may consider to choose their partner?
reggie24 View Profile History	What is the most important factor one may consider to choose their partner? Posted : 4 Mar, 2016 01:30 PM I asked this question because I have been on this site now and I often view the testimonies. What really pains me is that there are many users who think Black guys, especially Africans are just seeking opportunity. The problem many people continue to loose relationship is because they want to speak for themselves. We don't know God plan for us so we should refrain from putting limitations on our profile. God should be the one to decide for us and guide our steps. Remember the way that seems right to a man the end is destruction. Let consider the person character, devotion to God rather then judge them on their race, country or whatever negative motive we may have... Post Reply
View Profile History	What is the most important factor one may consider to choose their partner? Posted : 5 Mar, 2016 06:52 AM sorry,if you experienced that. its happens but Christian s are expected to behave like Christ.with love for others. true genuine salvation is the most important thing.with that all the other traits like kindness,caring ,honesty ..etc come along.Intelligence follows close. Post Reply
View Profile History	What is the most important factor one may consider to choose their partner? Posted : 5 Mar, 2016 03:02 PM For me, the most important factor is one's relationship with Jesus Christ. Someone who puts Jesus first in all things & who seeks to do the same in a developing friendship with another. It is disconcerting that on a Christian dating site I have yet to meet someone who has similar goals. Post Reply
reggie24 View Profile History	What is the most important factor one may consider to choose their partner? Posted : 7 Mar, 2016 05:23 PM Well said dear.. The most important person is Jesus Christ. It's a shame really. Post Reply
One_Sojourner View Profile History	What is the most important factor one may consider to choose their partner? Posted : 7 Mar, 2016 07:30 PM I agree with you all, Christ needs to be the foundation in our lives period.... living up to that statement is something we all lack in some aspect, we all fall short if you're to be honest about it. Reggie, one thing you might consider is that compared to most of us men (I'm saying probably) the women on this and other sites mail boxes are filled daily and they have to sort through many more scammers, liars, sweet talkers, fakes and the like. I've heard it from more than a few women that this is what they deal with daily so when a guy with good intentions comes along seems like the odds are against him from the start. I haven't been in your shoes nor you mine but feel confident in saying women are wary of all men whether black, white, from the US or Africa or wherever, and that they should be for their own protection. We are the ones who should be honoring and protecting, is it a wonder that many have their guard up? Be kind and patient, friendly and don't push but as has been told me... be confident, honor God, be a good man. Post Reply