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Sometimes one wonders
Posted : 6 Feb, 2013 11:31 AM

Many times I try to communicate with women on this site, but get the same song and dance.



Many times I would get the message sorry we don't match,



Many times I see women say how good and Christlike they are, but appear to be shallow.



Many times it seems that women on here look for who would benefit them rather than who needs them.



Many times it seems to be a lost cause.



I feel sad at times and want to give up. I know I am not perfect. I don't have the most pretty site. I keep adding and changing it. My picture is not bad. I am honest about my limitation and other aspects, but it does not count unless you tall, handsome, and rich. I know not all women are like this.



I know responding to me does not make or break your Christianity. I don't believe you truly know people until you give them a chance.



I trust God will take care of me as I finish seminary, but I need a helper. I can't promise money or special benefits.



I wonder if It is worth trying. I pray God blesses you all

today.





J G.

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Sometimes one wonders
Posted : 6 Feb, 2013 04:41 PM

I'm sorry you have not been having much success, J.G.



I know I am parroting an oft-repeated message, but just be patient and hang in there.



God knows who is right for you, and He will bring you two together; whether it shall be through this site, or through another means, is known only by Him.



Please do not feel sad or like giving up; that never benefits anyone. Keep having faith; someday you and the lady meant for you will come together. :)



God bless.

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Posted : 7 Feb, 2013 12:30 AM

I'm sorry that you haven't been successful in finding the woman for you.

God knows us best,He knows what is best for you.

Just hang on there and don't give up.

The right one will soon come your way.You may not even be the one to look for her,she will come to you.

Just trust in God and know that there is no dustbin for prayers.Every prayer that we pray counts in the eyes of God,and He will answer.

Keep praying about it.I also have not been successful,i get the same response whenever i try,but i believe the one for me will eventually come.The one that God has for me will not be able to resist me.

God bless you and may you have strength in Christ Jesus.

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Posted : 9 Feb, 2013 11:25 AM

Thanks for the words of encouragement. I know some think this is whining or not manly. Its honest. I think some want to put up a phony picture by saying they want a certain aspect in a relationship. One of them is the man contacting the woman. I done that but it appears to be sorry your not attractive or manly for me. What does it mean to be attractive? Or even manly? I saw a profile recently that used wording similar to that. God bless and thanks to those who read and replied. I am sure God will bless you greatly.



J G.

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