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Hey anyone and everyone :P
Posted : 27 Apr, 2012 08:46 AM

Well, I have been on here for few months now. I mainly enjoy the live chat and looking at profile browsing.. Meeting a few people... Talking around.. But It Occurs to me that most people on here seem to have unrealistic Expectations on who they will find on the internet. It also seems that most are comparing themselves to their friends or family... Trying to copy what worked for others.. Hoping that it will work for them too.



I am just going to be straight foreword here and provide two main thoughts about What I am thinking I should looking for on here and maybe it could be something you think is a good idea for yourself.



First, We are in the forth or fifth year of a Recession.. Yes, there is news about it getting better but It will take even more time before anyone starts to see the Economy getting better... So most on here or anywhere else.. Are either a full time Student or unemployed... There are some that have part time or full time jobs like myself but not many... So Long Distances relationships won't work out for me nor do I think for most people because the whole goal of a long distance relationship is too meet each other... Until then.. It is all just talk And the longer it takes to meet each other to more likely the relationship will turn sour. No one wants that...



Second, 4 Out of 10 America's are suffering with Obesity And the Media endlessly sends messages about what love and Sex... An intimate relationship should look like... Now after reading many profiles.. I have seen that most are looking for victoria secret super modals or Muscular Hulk men... I just have to address this.. If your basing who you want for your future wife or husband on looks.. Then your not looking for love but looking for lust... A beautiful Face or body doesn't really mean that someone has a beautiful Heart.. Really if you think about it.. The Opposite is most of the time true.. Because those people have been told all their life how special and beautiful they are.. So they can be egomaniacs... Which doesn't always make for the best partner in life..



I would think that Christians would want someone with the heart like Jesus.. That they seek out people who lay down their needs or desires Daily for serving others first. This is not only a sign that those people are Christ-like Christian with Good Fruits (Matthew 12:33) but When you have to different people submitting to each other in love and Serving one another.. That makes it very head to fight with one another... Seeing that most fights are about fighting for "me" not for "others".



Lastly I want to thank you for taking the time to read this... check out my profile if you like what you read and happen to be near Tampa.. LOL got to advertise myself :P And are looking for a good friend or something more.. Oh and lastly if your a man on here... I have heard a lot of women Complain about men sending them "Marry me" Messages... I can understand that your lonely but asking a complete Stranger to marry you just scares them and me for that matter.. I don't think anyone would do that in public so the same rules in life apply here... No one walks up to a complete stranger and just ask them to marry them... Just be yourself.. Be honest, kind, and Friendly... Look for friends... Soon or later the right person will notice you and Fight for you. But you have to show others that your worth fighting for... God bless everyone and take care :) I I hope you all find what your searching for

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Hey anyone and everyone :P
Posted : 4 May, 2012 05:24 PM

you are very yang,but you are very smart.God bless you to find the right person .G

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