Author	Thread: Hello Mix Love
Akuilfa View Profile History	Hello Mix Love Posted : 22 Feb, 2010 08:37 PM I am from Trinidad and Tobago 25 years old. Looking for love but a Christian man who loves God immensely. I am black but I seek someone who is not or who is mixed. Maybe that does not sound Christian but I thank God for my difference in taste. Colour does not make the person but yes its my choice. But maybe God has another plan for me. Been on this site about 2 months and its hard, strange to meet people like this. Does it work really. In everything I still give thanks! Post Reply
Akuilfa View Profile History	Hello Mix Love Posted : 24 Feb, 2010 05:30 PM What is wrong with Black Men? Answer: What is wrong with MEN!!!!! What is wrong with fat women? What is wrong with women who are barren? What is wrong skinny men? My Mistake to Put that Post. Mistakes + Lesson = Wisdom Post Reply
View Profile History	Hello Mix Love Posted : 24 Feb, 2010 07:14 PM Yes, if you don't like the turn that the post has taken, then don't start them based on 'not' wanting a certain race. That was a highly inflammatory statement. YOU said I want a match that is not black. I find your last 2 posts extremely hypocritical. You started a forum based on race and now balk at the race issues that arose from it. I must say that we are having fun here. I absolutely love bouncing ideas off of people with different viewpoints. And of course if I can get a few jabs in on Pluc, it makes my day. I am glad that you have learned and have gained wisdom. If you can't take the heat... Post Reply
GraceMae View Profile History	Hello Mix Love Posted : 24 Feb, 2010 07:39 PM Hey Akuilfa, I just wanted to encourage you. Your preferences as was said before are exactly that - "yours". No explanation is necessary, nor do you have to explain the whys of what you want. Ideally, too many times, I've seen them here on this forum, (not just you), but many men and women have chosen to date another race or nationality different than there own. I, for a long time, only had one way of looking at things as far as a mate for myself, HOWEVER, I've learned to open my eyes, (just recently matter of factly) and not put such a narrow path of limitations on God. As a black older female, I realized that God may have someone for me, His best for me... that may not be a black male. I'm just learning new things about myself as well. I think the older we get, the more we learn as we yield to God as He speaks to us, and allows other people to speak to our heart as well. Continue being you, and I'm certain God will give you His best choice for your perfect mate for life! ~ GraceMae Post Reply
Akuilfa View Profile History	Hello Mix Love Posted : 24 Feb, 2010 08:17 PM Hypocritical you say? I am the one who is being true to my feelings as you do to yours. You feel as though you have to try and pull me down as you seem to love doing. Check a local Newspaper and apply to be a Gossip Columnist. Don't come to Trinidad because you would not survive here. Anyway I must Thank God for everything and I thank him for you and Pluc. Since you all look like the bad ones and all the white men and some "fine brothers" as you put it are hitting up my profile. So I am loving my wisdom. So lilgirl I am so glad ooopps Babygirl for your views. And GraceMae. Thanks sweety and God bless you so much. To all the Black and White or Latinos thanks for your support. Post Reply
pluc View Profile History	Hello Mix Love Posted : 24 Feb, 2010 08:18 PM GraceMae Tell me why do you have a picture of food are you trying to catch a man with that food. If you are it is working because everytime i see that I want to come over and get something to eat. It is P Luc Post Reply
GraceMae View Profile History	Hello Mix Love Posted : 24 Feb, 2010 08:44 PM Well this is for Pluc....My Main profile pic is what I chose to display, not with intent of "catching" a man but, just what I decided to use; AND, thank you for the compliment of confirmatoin that it (pic) IS enticing!! I joined this site at first, not knowing what I was getting myself into, so I figured why not-- use my food! I KNOW it's good, so what better way to draw some interest? By doing that... has been a blessing, because that action has spurned some interesting beginnings of some nice new friendships for me here with both men and women. Surprisingly I wasn't expecting that, yet, it has been a most blessed blessing! ~ GM Post Reply
View Profile History	Hello Mix Love Posted : 25 Feb, 2010 08:33 AM Good morning, GraceMae! I am sure that Akuilfa was greatly soothed and encouraged by your kind words to her. I don't disagree with anything you have stated. Even if I did, you said you were a older black female, and flashbacks of my Mama and Grandma hitting me in the mouth come to my mind, so I'm cool. :laugh: I absolutely agree with the statement that you can have whatever preference you like without any explanation necessary. I told a guy that last week on another forum because he had a problem with women who had 'no smokers' restrictions etc.. The thing is, Akuilfa did state her preference AND offered an explanation. It was done on a forum. By the very definition it makes the topic up for discussion, so questions and further inquiries should not have been surprising. But I think that it was and I wasn't tongue in cheek when I said I'm glad she had learned from the experience. Post Reply
View Profile History	Hello Mix Love Posted : 25 Feb, 2010 08:53 AM Akuilfa. I just posted my reply and saw your comments directed towards me. I am sorry you saw my statements to you as trying to bring you down. That was not was not my intent. We are having a discussion and you started back-pedaling and I called you on it. I am glad for you (for real) that the forum has gotten you the attention that you desired. I told you with my first comment that I thought it was a shrewd move putting your preference on the forum. I was sincere when I said I hope you get what you are looking for. As for me making it in Trinidad, I must confess I know nothing of the place or its culture. I'm sure there are a good many places where I would make it and many more where I would not. I am sorrowful that you took what I've said so personally, enough to attempt to call me out my name, which is Sharon by the way. Also, my viewpoint is not gossip, but working at a newspaper in the advice or editorial column I think would suit me well. I honestly wish you well in your endeavor to find your man, whatever his race ends up being. Post Reply
View Profile History	Hello Mix Love Posted : 25 Feb, 2010 07:06 PM For me...I have only dated within a certain race and I dunno why, it just happened that way. but I feel that since God is perfect, I'm letting Him choose, finally. I dont seem to do well when I do it myself. Love and Blessings, Riveroflife Post Reply
View Profile History	Hello Mix Love Posted : 26 Feb, 2010 07:18 AM Hey riveroflife, Yeah, I had to learn that lesson as well. You try to read people and discern as much as you can. But since God is a reader of the heart, I'm letting Him choose this time. Post Reply

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