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To The Lovely Ladies On This Site.
Posted : 30 Jun, 2010 04:13 PM

Dearest Ladies, My name is Shelby, I am of German/Dutch descent, a Certified Stephen Minister, and a Gourmet Cook, who loves to spend hours creating mouth watering meals, in addition to my current medical experience, acquired while caring for my Mother. I am by no means afraid of hard work, and might even say I am sometimes inspired by it. I am fairly new to this site, but honestly impressed with this site for it's great control in keeping "Spammer", off of this site. Not that I have not been contacted by a few, and done my job by reporting them, but the speed with which the site gets rid of them, once they are uncovered, just blows me away. Others sites I have been on could care less, because I have seen these "Spammer", around for a long time after they have been reported. Anyway, back to me, I am a very Christian Gentleman, with a very deep resolve toward my life as a Christian, who is seeking the same in a future mate. I am not seeking a weekend fling, and would prefer that any Lady who is seeking this type of relationship, be kind enough to pass me by. There is a great difference between Sex, and Love, and to have Love in your live, you must feel Love in your heart. It does not bother me that my future mate may live in another State, just as long as she is not in another Country. As you will see from my profile, I am the sole caretaker of my Mother, and have been doing this job in greater, and greater degrees as My Mother's condition has progressed over the past 10 Years. Alas the end is not far off from now, and I am fairly sure she will not see this Christmas, or New Year come to pass. After this event has come, and Our Heavenly Father has called my Mother home, I intend to finish my final chores here, and move to Denver, Colorado, (A Place I Once Lived, And Loved For 4 Years Of My Life). My only exception to this plan, lies in the hands of my Heavenly Father, and the plans he may have in store for me. I think I can say with great certainty, that he, and I are agreed on the topic of my future life having a Bride in it, who I can love, honor, and support in the way God intended me to. A Woman who will take her "Vows Of Marriage", as God intended them to be. A Woman who knows that a Vow, is a sacred promise between her, and her God, and is not to be broken for any reason. This is the type of Christian I am, and the type of Christian Lady I seek. If this is the type of Lady you are, then reach out your hand to me, and we shall forge our future in the sight of our Heavenly Father, and walking the path he would have us walk, until the day comes for us to return to the home he has made ready in his Heavenly Kingdom. Lastly, I guess if any Lady cares to know more about me, by all means, please feel free to drop me a note, and we shall see where the road ahead will take us. Until then, "The Sweetest Of All Dreams To You All", Shelby

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Posted : 30 Jun, 2010 05:29 PM

Paragraphs would have made this readable.

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Posted : 2 Jul, 2010 07:01 PM

Shelby, I think what Nyanda meant to preface her suggestion w/ was:

Welcome to CDFF! Hope to see you around the forums =)

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Posted : 3 Jul, 2010 04:00 PM

Milady, I Thank You, for your attempt to cover up for the comment above, but I understand that people sometimes say things when they have had bad days, or even respond to others before they realize how things will sound to others. We are all Human, and all Flawed, and most of all, if we do not make the mistakes we do in life, we will never learn from them. I have already said a prayer for her, and harbor no ill will for her comment, no matter what her reason was. Shelby

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Posted : 4 Jul, 2010 04:51 PM

@ Pixy, I understand what you were trying to do but I don't appreciate being spoken for. @ a_laureate Large blocks of texts tend to discourage readers, myself included. No offence was intended. I was not having a bad day, and I posted that because if I were to read it in response to something I wrote I would have thought about it in the context to what I posted and probably have a laugh... But, I get it, we all have a different process.

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Posted : 5 Jul, 2010 12:46 AM

And I don't appreciate unkindness.



But I apologize that you were offended by my effort to smooth over your rough "welcome."



"Do not withhold good from those who deserve it, when it is in your power to act," (Proverbs 3:27, NIV).

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Posted : 5 Jul, 2010 08:05 AM

You have every right to view it any way you chose, BUT DO NOT PUT WORDS IN MY MOUTH!!

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Posted : 5 Jul, 2010 04:58 PM

hi its callalily33. After I read all about your forum I do hope that someday we could met. I totally agree that in a marriage must have love coming to our hearts.

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Posted : 16 Jul, 2010 04:15 PM

Milady Pixy, Again I find myself offering you my heart felt thanks for the understanding, and restraint you have shown in your letters toward this rather rude person. It is obvious to me that she has not been filled with the spirit, but instead filled with the same unhappiness and lackluster life, which is so common in the world outside of the Christian, or God centered community. We should all pray for Nyanda, so one day she will see the light, and the error of her ways. Shelby

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Posted : 16 Jul, 2010 04:16 PM

Nyanda, May God bless you, and open your heart, to the true beauty of living a Christian Life. "Ciao Bella", Shelby

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Posted : 16 Jul, 2010 04:27 PM

Callalily33, Thank You for your nice comment, and perhaps if you lived in the United States we could share many long and enjoyable conversations on the phone, or even in person. However, as nice as your offer is, I am afraid that I will not be traveling to the Philippine's anytime in the future. On the other hand, I sincerely hope you find what you seek in a long term relationship, or life mate. "Sweet Dreams", Shelby

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