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wingsofaneagle

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Posted : 11 Mar, 2010 04:46 AM

I have received emails from people and even if I am not interested send them a thank you and God Bless. I have had more no answers on this site than ona secular dating site. Contrary to popular belief we women do not shrink at rejection, at least I dont. I would rather have a no thank you than no response at all. Also I am puzzled by what men want on here. I am fairly fit and don't think I look like quasi moto and I think I have a fairly nomral profile (makes me wonder) .LOL However I have had very little success on this site. Maybe it is just not in God's plan for me to be here. I don't know..... Thanks for reading this

Take Care & God Bless

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Posted : 11 Mar, 2010 05:04 AM

Hello,



I wouldn't give up so soon. I went to your profile and yes, you are cute and everything is all good.



I have had a few not answer my messages as well. I attribute it to some not wanting the woman to make the first move. Others, I think, are not interested and they use not answering as a their 'I don't think we are a good match'. This is all theory of course, since I always answer every message.



I would watch out for scammers (men trying to money from you), and know that there are success stories here. Most, are Christian here. I have found I have to gauge what level we both are on so that we are equally yoked. I hope you stick around for awhile. I have found a few women friends here. It has been really good.



God bless you in your 'boo' finding you soon. Feel free to message me anytime, I will write back! :laugh:

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Posted : 11 Mar, 2010 05:45 AM

Thanks for the words of encouragement. I am here to fellowship with christian women. As to your comment of men not wanting the woman to make the first move. I guess I see that... However, when I like someone in real life I let them know. I have tried sending winks ond don't really feel comfortable doing that... Also just because I send the first email does not mean that I want the dominant role in the relationship. So thanks and take care....

wings of an eagle

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Posted : 11 Mar, 2010 06:08 AM

Hey again,



I really loved Tyler Perry's first movie "Diary of a Mad Black Woman". Out of all that he has attempted , I believe that was the most moving and well done.



One line in the movie (or was it the play? I am getting old! :laugh: ) when Madea says, "Always believe people when they show you who they are". I am weird in that I actually appreciate it when people show their real selves to me right off the bat (rude or otherwise).



When someone doesn't answer me back, out of all the possible guys I can be with, I can erase one off the list! I'm kinda crazy like this :excited:, but I feel like I'm closer to the one I am going to be with because the field is narrowed down.



I figure they are afraid to reach back, don't like me for some reason, have a lack of home-training, or are just not nice. Either way, I don't take it personal. It is awesome when you get to the point when you know who you are and stuff like that doesn't bother you.



Plus all the ones that do answer make for it! :rocknroll:

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Posted : 11 Mar, 2010 06:23 AM

Darn my long fingernails and mind that moves faster than my hands! :dunce:



Of course, I meant,"The ones that do answer make UP for it! :rocknroll:" :laugh:

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Posted : 11 Mar, 2010 06:30 AM

Thanks. You are completely awesome! I am going to rent the move "diary of a mad black woman today... You are right. It took me a long time to get to the place to accept myself for who and what has made me to be fearfully and wonderfully made. So thanks again!:applause:

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Posted : 11 Mar, 2010 06:34 AM

The person who God has desgned me to be Fearfully and Wonderfully made. I don't have long fingernails and my fingers aren't working well either>>>LOL

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Posted : 11 Mar, 2010 06:42 AM

Thanks! You are going to want to buy it after seeing it. Make sure you have a box of tissues and are ready to say, "Uh ah, No He Didn't!" ghetto style! :laugh: Have fun and I'm sure I'll be talking to you later.

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Posted : 11 Mar, 2010 08:05 PM

Wings & Babygirl- Ya'll are too funny!:ROFL: (need to take a look at the joke thread) I've been on CDFF for over 3 months and just now getting people (a few) to respond to my e-mails. One wrote ME wanting to be friends then never heard from them again, I have YET to get a response to a single instant message. I don't know if they are offline already or just ignoring me. Anyway, the key is patience, Wings, a lot of people are shy, though there are some rude people on any site. Don't give up. There are a LOT of nice people here too. Babygirl is one of them. She makes a lot of contributions to these forums and has a lot of good advice to share. There are too many other nice folks on here to mention, but just hang in there. You're a very attractive young lady and I'm sure you'll have no problem at all on this site. God bless both of ya'll! CE

PS-the former Mrs. CE liked Madea too, (I wish she would have stayed in jail myself)

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Posted : 12 Mar, 2010 03:57 AM

Awwwww.....Edw6265, you are my new best friend! You are so sweet! I will implore P-luc to come over here and read what you wrote. It is doing my heart good already to imagine the 'Humph', I know will immediately come form his mouth.



I went to your profile. You are an extremely handsome, very young-looking for your age, southern gentleman. I find it hard to believe you are not 'beating them off with a bat' so to speak, on this site. (And for real I'm not just saying this because you said those nice things about me:rolleyes:)



From your info on your profile, somebody better get it together before they miss their blessing!



Only problem I have is you wanting Madea to stay in jail. Don't make me go Color Purple quote on you! :laugh: I won't since you are my new best friend :laugh:

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Posted : 12 Mar, 2010 09:38 AM

Awe shucks, ma'm, makin me blush!:glow:

Thanks for the nice things. You ladies really are on a good site! God Bless!

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