Author	Thread: I don't belong in this world
austin93a^ View Profile History	I don't belong in this world Posted : 28 Oct, 2023 10:41 PM all my life I wanted nothing more then to be a husband and father. I didn't everything I thought would help me in that goal and nothing happened, I seeked all the advice from others and that didn't help, I poured my heart out to God and that didn't change anything ether. I figured I needed to just wait and now I'm to old to be a father. never once have I been on a date, every blind date stood me up, i tried speed dating and every one avoided my table, I messaged everyone on every christian dating site in the USA and I only got scammers to people pushing for sex that replied. I joined every bible study, singles group, fellowship group and never saw one giro my age in any of those groups so I church hopped going even states away and nothing yet everyone I know says i'm doing the right things and that I should have been married years ago but here I am 100% dateless and now I'm undateble because of my age. I have no family, no one my own age to spend time with, what few friends I have are old enough to be my grandparents. I don't fit in with anyone my own age anymore, I never really did anyway. I said I gave up looking for anyone and that's true but I can't handle it. the last 2 months have been hard. I gained over 40 pounds trying to eat my pain away. I cry every night knowing that I was never be good enough for anyone. I always tried to avoid the problem by spending all my time helping others, volunteering, doing mission work, helping the homeless and foster kids/families but that doesn't help me avoid the emptiness from knowing i'll never have any family let alone kids of my own. im sorry but I just don't belong in this world. it was nice knowing you all. hopefully you find what you want here and in this life, I never did. 😖 Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	I don't belong in this world Posted : 16 Oct, 2024 02:03 AM Roy Orbison sang "Only the Lonely" Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	I don't belong in this world Posted : 16 Oct, 2024 02:08 AM Spock said in an episode of Star Trek, "Better wanting than having." Or "It is sometimes better to want than to have." Post Reply
CarlSolaScriptura View Profile History	I don't belong in this world Posted : 13 May, 2025 07:21 PM A book that has been very helpful for my waiting on God/not getting what I want is Sit, Walk, Stand by Watchman Nee. Hope it helps you as much as it did me- your servant in Jesus Post Reply
MMrSMITH View Profile History	I don't belong in this world Posted : 15 Nov, 2025 11:26 PM I felt the same way, I even was with women who didn't care about me never listened to me, they just wanted me, but God will bless your broken path just look to the future, save money so that you can open more opportunities, don't entertain women who don't show interest drop and move on, it's not over yet don't give up, and always be trying Post Reply

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