Author	Thread: what's the point of having a singles group if women aren't internet in men anymore?
austin93a^ View Profile History	what's the point of having a singles group if women aren't internet in men anymore? Posted : 25 Oct, 2023 09:53 PM I run/host a local young adults singles group in my church that's open to anyone from the area. before I took over the pastors wife ran it for years. I was able to grow the group from about 5 to about 30 men but never once did women join nor have any of the men in the group been able to date. I'm beginning to realize why the pastors wife gave up in the group. women don't want men anymore, ohh they might say they do, but their actions say otherwise. sadly no man can be good enough for women anymore, nothing we so will ever be good enough in their eyes. ill be shutting the group down next Saturday and letting the guys know they need to stop wasting their time trying to find someone. I guess there kinda a upside to this. we know we're not living in the end time as the bible says before hand people will be marrying and giving in marriage. yeah marriage is dead among people my age just like people wanting relationship. it's time for every man to wake up a realize hardly any woman wants a relationship. i'm not only done trying to find anyone bug i'm done trying to help. I advise any man reading this to give up now and make amends with the fact that no woman will ever want you. Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	what's the point of having a singles group if women aren't internet in men anymore? Posted : 14 May, 2024 10:15 AM " authentic Paid site for Dating" edit Post Reply
Handyman62 View Profile History	what's the point of having a singles group if women aren't internet in men anymore? Posted : 14 May, 2024 11:33 AM Moonbeam you boast a lot about all the dating you do, which by the way I don't believe for a second. I know you won't answer this question, but what do you actually bring to the dating table that a man would actually want? Lets be real. You try and portray yourself as such a shinning example of a women, yet you've spent how many years trying to find a replacement for your husband? Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	what's the point of having a singles group if women aren't internet in men anymore? Posted : 14 May, 2024 11:46 AM Struggling with your Religion. Seek a Holy Spirit filled Teacher he can teach you how to respectfully speak to Women. Jesus Christ works wonders with Men who has their own distorted views of the Scriptures. Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	what's the point of having a singles group if women aren't internet in men anymore? Posted : 14 May, 2024 11:51 AM Encouragement topic here God can help those who are struggling with all kinds of imperfections ! Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	what's the point of having a singles group if women aren't internet in men anymore? Posted : 14 May, 2024 11:58 AM Continuously Trying to Degrade me/ women is Pathetic on a dating site. Human Post Reply
Handyman62 View Profile History	what's the point of having a singles group if women aren't internet in men anymore? Posted : 14 May, 2024 12:16 PM So you bring nothing to a relationship accept arguments and poor communication skills. Thanks for playing along. Post Reply
freetobe View Profile History	what's the point of having a singles group if women aren't internet in men anymore? Posted : 17 May, 2025 01:53 PM That's amazing you were able to grow it to that size! Hopefully you are not bringing the negativity of this post to the group. Possibly the ladies are intimidated by it being all men at this time and are afraid of being out-numbered. With that amount of people I'm sure you have all kinds of skill sets to set up "events" (not just a get together for socializing). If it's all about meeting someone you will get a group of people trying to socially navigate the room and that can be frustrating for some, create cliques etc. Plus, you don't want to view it as time wasted, can you do an activity you would enjoy no matter what, that others may join? Maybe once a month a group hike, a service to the church like landscaping with a bbq, painting a classroom with a bbq, food drive ( I did this once, not only hugely successful to the recipients but an opportunity to engage with everyone in the singles group, we walked neighborhoods with wagons and people were really generous with their donations), feed the homeless ,this could be done after the food drive mentioned, take a survey asking people what activities they enjoy, is there someone in the congregation that needs a service like yard clean up/painting/car wash/repair, game night etc. If there was a ladies group, what would attract you to the group and you would have a good time regardless if you were able to get a date with your first pick or not? It sounds service oriented but you do not want people every week that just want to show up and be entertained, also you want to learn about someone in a "neutral" environment, if they can't show up and participate that tells you at least one thing about them. Don't try to do it all yourself, let the other men show their strengths too. Great job getting the group to this size, make it organized, fun, an activity they can participate in, a way to engage without needing to come up with a reason to approach. I'm sure if your group had a reputation for good service and events they would show up! (side note; lack of paragraphs because it makes the post too big. Post Reply
rbj66 View Profile History	what's the point of having a singles group if women aren't internet in men anymore? Posted : 20 May, 2025 06:10 AM Well there's positivity for ya 🙄. I was going to ask of they are getting fed the Word, but it seems you should not even be hosting with that attitude. People are less into relationships today for sure but jeez, i agree you need to step back. Post Reply

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