He that hideth hatred with lying lips, and he that uttereth a slander, is a fool.
Here are two easy ways to sin with your speech. You can be a hypocrite and use polite words to deceive people and hide the bitterness and envy in your heart. Or you can spread false and malicious rumors about a person to others. These two sins are in great supply today. Transparent honesty and integrity - clearly visible and known by all - is very rare.
Ah, reader, do you see what the wise man had to say next? He wrote, "In the multitude of words there wanteth not sin: but he that refraineth his lips is wise" (10:19). It is hard to speak much and not sin - for every sentence raises the chance of sin. So the Preacher gives the wise advice of closing your lips and not talking so much (17:27-28; Jas 1:19).
When the prophet Isaiah saw the LORD, he was in terror for the sins of his lips (Is 6:1-7). He said, "Woe is me! for I am undone; because I am a man of unclean lips, and I dwell in the midst of a people of unclean lips: for mine eyes have seen the King, the LORD of hosts" (Is 6:5). A right view of God will cause you to hate your speech (Ps 4:4)!
The blunt apostle James had no mercy for the tongue. He said, "And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell" (Jas 3:6). He said, "But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison" (Jas 3:8).
Your tongue is called your glory for praising God (Ps 16:9; 30:12; 57:8; Acts 2:26). But it also curses men. "Therewith bless we God, even the Father; and therewith curse we men, which are made after the similitude of God. Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be" (Jas 3:9-10).
You are a fool, if you hide hatred with polite words. Instead of forgiving others and ending conflict, fools cover hatred in their hearts with lies. It is horrible when such evil is in the church. David prayed to be delivered from such hypocrites, whose right hand is a right hand of falsehood and their mouth speaks empty pretensions (Ps 144:7-8,11).
You are a fool, if you say anything against another. Slander is spreading false information or innuendoes about others. Backbiting, talebearing, and whispering are telling the truth about another, but it is information that damages another's character and reputation.
If you are wise, a tongue is your glory - to praise God and edify others. If you are a fool, it is your curse - a tool of hypocrisy and murder. Be wise (18:21; Eph 4:29; Col 4:6)!
Yes, Givenlife you have brought a �key� point� and you have defended it wisely.
Generally we have the tendency to think that � for example � fornication/sex � is the most spread sin, most practiced� And I have come to the conclusion that maybe it is not�
Lying, cursing in all possible ways and speaking behind other people�s back are more frequent, they are daily and every one of us can fall there� mostly because we are constantly hurt by others and it is a normal/human reaction to speak back to defend ourselves�. But it is wrong, it is written to bless our enemies, not to curse them� pay attention� �our enemies�
