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kdhny11
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Is there "just one" for you?Posted : 6 Aug, 2009 08:58 AMOften we hear about how God has made one just for you - that there is only one person in the world created just for you, etc, and that we are to wait on the Lord for this one person to come into our life. Sometimes this is referred to as one's soulmate and it obviates real choice. |
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Is there "just one" for you?Posted : 6 Aug, 2009 06:15 PMI think maybe there is just one for a person at a time. Like, God may have given us different people to chose from, so we could know who we we're supposed to be with. I mean, people sometimes get married more than once, even more than two times, to finally find who they are really supposed to be with. and people we think are our soulmates may not be. I mean, i for sure thought the last guy i was with was my ONE but he wasn't. God has a different plan for us than we ourselves could ever concieve or comprehend. Like God sent Ruth to Boaz....she had been married once and her husband died. Her husband was a man of God. But still, even after she was married, he gave her someone else. So maybe not just one, but only one at a time. |
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homeshalom
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Is there "just one" for you?Posted : 6 Aug, 2009 06:37 PMI think there may be just one but for some reason many folks never reliase the perosn that may be...I think YAH (God) knows each and everyone of our hearts and he is the ultimate matchmaker.. |
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Is there "just one" for you?Posted : 6 Aug, 2009 07:36 PMno, i don't believe there's just 'one for you.' |
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Is there "just one" for you?Posted : 6 Aug, 2009 07:39 PMdear homes, welcome to the forums.. |
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DontHitThatMark
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Is there "just one" for you?Posted : 6 Aug, 2009 10:49 PMI'm sure there is a perfect person...it seems like if we followed God's will to the letter that there would be. But aside from direct divine intervention...it's hard to tell sometimes if it's God or just your own will that's being done. Everyone can make mistakes...and I know some people disagree with me on this...but I think God leaves our choices up to us. I don't believe He would force that perfect person on you....even though it's whats best for you. So I think that while there may be that perfect person for you...I think it's more realistic to look a perfect TYPE of person for you...and if you're looking in the direction of the perfect TYPE...maybe God will lead that perfect person right under your nose. I do think it's possible to miss though...so watch for them. God will let you know. I don't think He's into subterfuge or misdirection. And I think finding someone that is the perfect TYPE for you...is almost as good as finding the perfect person. I don't think God will punish you for making a good choice instead of a perfect one...Paul talks about marriage kinda like this. Someone "does well" when they get married, but someone "does better" if they don't. So there are different degrees of "good" choices. But this is all my opinion. I don't think it says anything about this in the bible except "all things work together for good for those who love God". So just follow God. I guess it's that simple, right? :laugh: |
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Is there "just one" for you?Posted : 7 Aug, 2009 01:55 AMdear kdh, ya know, i just aint really sure .. i do know i havent been with her yet hehe... this is a good question. |
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Is there "just one" for you?Posted : 7 Aug, 2009 08:38 AMBROTHER DHTM, YES IT IS THAT SIMPLE, FOLLOWING GOD IS THE NUMBER ONE REQUIREMENT. |
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Is there "just one" for you?Posted : 7 Aug, 2009 08:40 AMTHE IMPORTANT THING TO ALSO NOTE IS THAT, EVEN IF SOME OF US FIND THAT PERSON OF WHOM GOD HAS DEFINATELY CREATED FOR US, THE PERSON WILL STILL HAVE THEIR FLAWS, AFTERALL, WE WERE NOT CREATED TO BE PERFECT, BUT THE FACT THAT THIS PERSON, EVEN WITH THEIR FLAWS, WAS CREATED TO BE WITH YOU TILL DEATH IS JUST AN AMAZING FEELING. DONT YO THINK SO? |
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kdhny11
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Is there "just one" for you?Posted : 7 Aug, 2009 09:36 AMSo far there have been a lot of great comments and I have enjoyed reading them all. |
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DontHitThatMark
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Is there "just one" for you?Posted : 7 Aug, 2009 10:32 AMWell...while I agree that there is no predestined marriage partner...I think there is one that God knows would be the best for me....so in that sense I think there is that perfect person for everyone. But it's still our choice, and we still make mistakes...but if we can know God's will and follow it closely enough, I think He would show them to us. But it gets complicated because it's not just one person's choice...but I dunno. Let's just say, I'm looking for a perfect type of person. And while I'm not looking for that perfect person per se...I kinda am at the same time...indirectly. If God really wants us together, He will find a way. I'll just trust Him and try follow what I know. He knows what's best. |
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