When God created man, he created a single male a man solo single by himself and his image after his likeness. Now take careful notice Jah named him!... and called Adam!...then he said "it's not good that this man, this single male... Adam...should be alone... so from the ground Yahweh God formed every wild animal and every bird that flies in the air and he brought them to the person to see what he will call them whatsoever the person would call each living creature that was to be its name"...
The last part was very important!....he said whatever the person would call each living creature that was be its name he gave Adam dominion over those creatures because he named them...
Also was very important to notice that Yahweh gave Adam a purpose a plan something to do ordain by him!
Now notice what takes place...
Then Yahweh caused a deep sleep to fall upon the person Adam and while he was sleeping he took one of his ribs and closed up the place for which with he took it with flesh, the rib wich Yahweh God had taken from the person he made a woman person and he brought her to the man the person said at last this is bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh she shall be called a woman....."
Genesis (b'resheet) 2:18
Now take note he brought the woman to the man as he brought the animals to the man!... are women animals?? NOOOO!! Thats not my point! but notice what he did....
Now allow me to leave solid my foundation before I continue to the reason for marriage... first Corinthians chapter 11 verse 8 "for man was not created for the woman but the woman for the man..."
Now as a woman if you feel rage inside you right now as you read this or if you feel disgust, indignation or you become angry
And feel the need to fight for the supressing of women.....or see me as trying to create a reason for what women today call "a controlling man".....then that's the reason your single and alone!..
For you see marriage was created to carry out the purposes and accounts of our Father in heaven that we may have dominion and rule the earth and create his kingdom on this earth he gave the purpose to the man the woman is there to help him carry out the purpose!..... that is the reason for marriage.
However the main problem has been that men have lost their purpose they have lost their direction and connection with Father in heaven... therefore you must wait for a man with a purpose from God! And take note take careful note he may come in any race or color very important for you ladies...
However there is a deeper issue are women today have become self centered that we have to focus on them and forsake our God created purpose to concentrate on them and 1st Corinthians chapter 7 it speaks of how the husbands divided between the wife and Yahweh!...
If our women would take the place that they were divinely given.... and help the man what they were called to do and help him get closer to the Father closer to the purpose pray for him stay behind him even when he seems to be the worst man to help lift him up to build him up so that he create his family and legacy and complete the purpose of Yahweh and create a new family the family that Yahweh put down here for us in the beginning the family of the Heavenly Father our family....
So ladies this is not about you and your ministry and what your man should be doing for you when you hold your position and respect and honor your husband a true follower of God and you pray for him or try to build him up.....the Father will either make him and bring him to his purpose or he will remove him and give YOU....you something better!
Nope and Barbie move him I mean either death or biblically as a non believer of the face... Romans 7 1 through 3 1st Corinthians 7:15
also to abused wives.... No! divorce is not biblical!...separation and getting away from him is biblical! YAHWEH..did not call you to be abused or beaten or harmed!!! but divorce is not the answer..... separation getting aSAFE location, praying if you believe in God for someone you allegedly claim to love you pray for him that he will be changed if not YAHWEY will deal with him that is how you deal with abusive relationships!
Some of you claim abuse if he tell you to shut up...or if he won't work, or if he drinks!....so you leave n call him a bad man!!
No...you were there to pick him up! Thats what you were for!...but you want perfect.....after all what can a drunk broke man you married do FOR YOU?? ....RIGHT?....
:waving: Welcome to the forums biglion. Very nice post. It is very obvious that many currant men have been de~masculized by the Women's Liberation Movement. Women have pushed their way along for awhile now. I understand the women wanting equal pay $$$ for equal job but a women wanting to wear the pants in the family (run~control everything) is just not biblical. The man is the head of the woman as Christ is the head of man and GOD "Yahweh" is the Head and over ALL...that is how GOD designed the plan for Humankind...
When a marriage falls apart and separation/divorce happens, due to abuse, selfishness, self centered goals it is mostly...not always but mostly the woman that has to make ends meet alone. Working 2 or more jobs. So sometimes a women must wear the pants and be the (Head of the Household) due to circumstances.
Gen 2:26 And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth. 27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. 28 And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth. (KJV)
The scriptures say that Papa GOD "Yahweh" took a rib from Adams side...therefore woman is to be "beside" her man...not above him or below him...Beside him...along side of him as a "Help Meet"
Gen 2:18 And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
Being "joined" together Papa GOD "Yahweh" has spoken...
Gen 2:24 This is why a man leaves his father and mother and bonds with his wife, and they become one flesh.
She the woman is to bare the man's children and do what she is created for. Be the man's "Help Meet". She is to exhort...encourage...build up...be strong for him in his weakness and the man is to do the same with and for the woman. He is her Cover..Redeemer... and her Strength as the LORD is for us his children...his Bride...
When a man and woman are on the "Same Page of the Bible/Torah/Teachings" ..."Equaly Yoked" then it will be a most Excellent marriage. Each one submitting to Papa GOD and to each other...
I agree with the points about male leadership being the design. With this point, however, I must take exception.
"also to abused wives.... No! divorce is not biblical!...separation and getting away from him is biblical! YAHWEH..did not call you to be abused or beaten or harmed!!! but divorce is not the answer..... separation getting aSAFE location, praying if you believe in God for someone you allegedly claim to love you pray for him that he will be changed if not YAHWEY will deal with him that is how you deal with abusive relationships!"
To begin with, long-term separation is not a legal option in some states. A couple, at least in Indiana, must either come back together or divorce.
Going back to a man who is physically abusive is a prescription for worse abuse. Ladies, don't do it!
But abuse was the *original* reason God permitted divorce. In Deuteronomy 24, a man who found "uncleanness" in his wife could write up a divorce. But a husband who "hated" her might do the same.
Why did the Law make this provision? The Lawgiver (Christ who gave it to Moses) explains in Matthew 19 that it was for the hardness of their hearts. Because some men are evil, some men, if divorce is not an option, will abuse or even kill. Consider King Henry VIII.
Ladies, if your husband is striking (not just yelling at) you or the children, get that safe place and DIVORCE him!
It is shocking that one would claim that doing evil is good to prevent further evil. What version are you reading? My bible says God hates divorce because it covers the garments in violence. And Jesus repudiated every last one of Moses' reasons for allowing divorce. It says in 1 Corinthians 7, if you get a divorce, hold yourself open for reconciliation. Jesus also said in Luke 16:18 written to the Greeks, if you marry a divorced person you commit adultery. He said the same to the Romans in Mark 10. Physically separating for your physical safety and running off to the courthouse to get a divorce are not the same thing. One is permitted. The other is not. Do not repay evil for evil, but overcome evil with good. The only exception Jesus gives when it comes to divorce is the Joseph and Mary exception: the marriage where the couple was betrothed in the Jewish culture, but not consummated marriage, and the woman was found to have committed sexual sin before the consummation of the marriage. That is the exception in Matthew. There is no other situation which allows for divorce and marriage to another without committing adultery, so long as the spouse is alive.
